Why is finding someone so hard?

[Starnchrist]

K9 you've been on dates for the heck of it? lol wow you blessed. lol hahah I wish I can be like dates for the heck of it. At least that would be the start! lol

 

[K9_Trainer]

Haha sure, but it sucks when they want to be more than friends and I don't and there's rarely a mutual "Yeah, we should be friends"! Maybe it's just something I take for granted

 

[beautygal123]

I have been on so many dates in my life, that I just don't care anymore. They weren't special after a while. Blah.

I've found that everything worth having in my life, has always been tough to get.

 

[Starnchrist]

Haha sure, but it sucks when they want to be more than friends and I don't and there's rarely a mutual "Yeah, we should be friends"! Maybe it's just something I take for granted

Yeah you lucky lol

 

[Lord Herdsetk]

But only ONE is the real Waldo There are many out there but only one who is the Right One.

You gotta think positively. They're all Mr. Right

 

[leothelioness]

Just wondering. Why is it so easy for others to find love or just someone in their lives, while other's can't even get a date! I mean...It's like... crazy. I've had more internet flings then real life prospects! It's so complicated. I mean...I can have guy friends easy. I'm into action and adventure movies, Video Games, Football, (not so Wrestling fan) I mean I have lived around guys my whole life and I just don't get it. I know it's not about that, but at least I can find something of commonality with guys, but I can't get a date to save my life. I know what it is, but changing that part of my life is not easy. I wish I had someone who could be my motivator. I can't be the only one feeling this way for sure. I mean some people complain about being single, but they can do the dating thing every week, while...others take years just to get 1 date. Life is so cruel.

I was just about to say it's like a cruel joke. People that never seem to be single are either not very selective or they're just really lucky.

My sister and I are polar opposites in that regard. I don't think she's been single for more than a few months at a time. And, then there's me who's never had a relationship. Granted, my sister is the more attractive one, but there's more factors involved I'm sure.

 

[leothelioness]

Are you looking for "a date" or are you looking for "future husband"?

I don't know about anyone else, but I can't even get a date, nevermind finding a "future husband".

 

[broken_one]

I'm um....not really going to say anything.

 

[kevlite2020]

I don't know about anyone else, but I can't even get a date, nevermind finding a "future husband".

But you've turned down every guy on this board!



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Twice!

 

[leothelioness]

Lol, what??

I know I've probably said it here before, but I'm done with the whole CF-as-a-dating-site thing. NEVER going there again.

 

[kevlite2020]

Lol, what??

I know I've probably said it here before, but I'm done with the whole CF-as-a-dating-site thing. NEVER going there again.

Don't worry, just messin with you

 

[leothelioness]

Okay.

 

[acropolis]

You know what else is hard? Getting dumped. That is hard. That's why I'm post post posting all over the internet and text text texting friends at break-neck speeds to purge the bile within me. Also intoxicated. As the venerable Heckmair once said about himself while descending the west ridge of the Eiger after the first successful summit "The human animal was unhappy." This human animal is unhappy, thought the mind knows it is for nothing.

edit: when you meet someone, a seed is planted in your soul which, if nurtured, grows into a plant whose roots wrap around the vital organs of the self, crawling and probing deep inside you and when this plant is ultimately uprooted it lacerates every delicate part of the soul which it has touched and leaves and miserable pit which only time and Johnny Walker Red can fill.

edit2: what is most essential in life is to find and keep those friends who are willing to drive over to your place at 3:30 AM to give comfort in times of need. They will see you through the darkness even when those who have claimed to love you throw you away.

 

[MacFall]

Some people have physical beauty, which draws people to them automatically. Others have charisma, by which they can draw others to them deliberately. Others have both.

Some of us, on the other hand, have neither, and I've given up on trying to figure out how to attract members of the opposite sex in the absence of those things.

 

[Inkachu]

I stopped caring about "attracting men" and just prayed for The Right One. Maybe a good suggestion for some others here.

 

[Niels]

What Keri said.

Finding someone isn't hard. Finding the RIGHT person is hard.

 

[somebodysangel_88]

Let God have His Hand in things... He'll find you the one when the time is right. He literally put His hand in things for me...

 

[Amber the Duskbringer]

I know I'll probably get in trouble but that sounds so dirty

 

[somebodysangel_88]

My sweetheart put his hand on my shoulder and I willingly gave him mine... We've been together since!

 

[royourboat]

Easiest game of Where's Waldo Ever?

Isn't it Where's Wally? Or is that just the British version