As a Christian, what is your opinion on a newly dating couple spending time alone dinner , movies at their boyfriend house ? Should a Christian guy/girl spent time alone with the opposite sex ?
Part of being mature enough to have a relationship is being mature enough to exercise self-control. A couple should know themselves well enough to know what boundaries should be in place. I personally wouldn't invite my girlfriend back to my apartment, nor would I spend time alone with her in her home until we were both agreed as to our boundaries. Once we did agree, then we could relax, knowing there's a line we won't cross.As a Christian, what is your opinion on a newly dating couple spending time alone dinner , movies at their boyfriend house ? Should a Christian guy/girl spent time alone with the opposite sex ?
What other examples are there of self-control in a relationship?Part of being mature enough to have a relationship is being mature enough to exercise self-control. A couple should know themselves well enough to know what boundaries should be in place. I personally wouldn't invite my girlfriend back to my apartment, nor would I spend time alone with her in her home until we were both agreed as to our boundaries. Once we did agree, then we could relax, knowing there's a line we won't cross.
I don't think it's inappropriate for a couple to spend time alone together, and it's none of my business if they do. As for me, once we're clear on the boundaries, she can spend all the time we deem appropriate under my roof. If anyone confronts us about it, I'll kindly explain it's none of their business. As long as she and I know our boundaries and haven't crossed them, I don't see a problem with it.
Self-control is important in any conflict as well. For married couples, financial self-control is vital. They should also exercise self-control over their desires to change one another.What other examples are there of self-control in a relationship?
What other examples are there of self-control in a relationship?
As a Christian, what is your opinion on a newly dating couple spending time alone dinner , movies at their boyfriend house ? Should a Christian guy/girl spent time alone with the opposite sex ?
what makes nighttime (like sleeping) different from the daytime? People don't view falling asleep during the same room during the day the same way.No they should not be doing that.. Temptation happens to us all and geting yourself into a situation as you describe is playing with fire..
As a Christian, what is your opinion on a newly dating couple spending time alone dinner , movies at their boyfriend house ? Should a Christian guy/girl spent time alone with the opposite sex ?
I am Baptist too and this was my thinking too in the issue. It is interesting to hear everyone perspective. Self control is very important.Sadly, my deeply Baptist background and upbringing still tends to shape my way of thinking on these kind of issues, so my first instinct is to say that avoiding altogether such a situation, as stated in the OP, would be best. No exceptions.
However. This kind of thing isn't so black and white. I think one's actions on this issue depends a great deal on your own ability to exercise proper self-control, and age does factor in as well. If we're talking teenagers, that might not be the best idea (not intended to be a slam against teens, but let's not kid ourselves). Two people, say my own age (late twenties) or older is usually a bit different. It does boil down to maturity and a healthy respect for the other person's physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being, including your own. Maybe give it a few weeks before spending alone time with your SO to ensure you know them well enough to do so.
what makes nighttime (like sleeping) different from the daytime? People don't view falling asleep during the same room during the day the same way.
I never made any comment about day time or night time.. Somebody else may have but not me..