The problem I have with the Darwinian Theory stems from the implications it makes against God's word. In my mind, Darwinian evolution cannot be reconciled with the teachings of the Bible, mainly because God has said that death came as a result of man's sin. Evolution teaches that death was a natural occurrence for billions of years before man came on the scene. Someone has said many, many pages ago that it only meant spiritual death, and while that is certainly true (partially), it is also true that physical death was a result of man's sin. God told Adam, "By the sweat of your face you will eat bread, Till you return to the ground, Because from it you were taken; For you are dust, and to dust you shall return." (Genesis 3:19, NASB). If death had been a common occurrence, why would God need to describe this process?
And then Paul supports this in his letter to the Romans, "Therefore, just as through one man sin entered into the world, and death through sin, and so death spread to all men, because all sinned," and, "For if by the transgression of the one the many died, much more did the grace of God and the gift by the grace of the one Man, Jesus Christ, abound to the many." (Romans 5:12, 15). What was the grace of Jesus? That he, "died for the ungodly." And so we see that God's word is speaking of spiritual AND physical death. Evolution does not agree with this.
I do agree that science and faith are not enemies. There are many folks on this discussion that are firm in their stance on traditional creationism that happily agree that science is a wonderful thing; after all, God made it so! But we disagree with the evolution theory. Does it look appealing from a distance? Absolutely! However, the closer we look, the more we find way too many missing pieces and far too many assumptions that are paraded as facts.
I wonder why those of us who are traditional creationist are said to be "burying our heads in the sand and trying to defend the indefensible?" The burden is not on us to prove God created the world as recorded in his Word. Rather, the burden is on those who would compromise with the world's attempt to explain God away with a deceptive theory that is not supported by science.
Are we then foolish? Praise the Lord! "Where is the wise man? Where is the scribe? Where is the debater of this age? Has not God made foolish the wisdom of the world? For since in the wisdom of God the world through its wisdom did not come to know God, God was well-pleased through the foolishness of the message preached to save those who believe." (1 Corinthians 1:20-21)
Finally, I want to address something of the original post: "Why do Christians hate the theory of Evolution?" Obviously, there are many Christians here who not only do not hate the theory of Evolution, but embrace the theory; more than that, they claim it to be a fact! As for me, I do not "hate" the theory at all, I just simply disagree with it because it doesn't measure up to the biblical witness of creation (whether by my argument about death, or even the order of creation vs the order of evolution) and it has way too many gaps, or missing links, to be considered factual. In other words, it is far from being scientifically proven. I don't hate a theory, nor do I hate the scientist (or anyone else for that matter) that seek to push the evolutionary agenda.
With all of that said, I pray that while we may all disagree on many things, we may always agree in the Blessed Hope, our Lord Jesus Christ! May his grace be upon you!