It's not God's fault you love sin so much when He allows you to follow your own desires..
Is it the parents fault if their kid turns out to be a bad apple after providing them a good home with good examples?
Plenty of people with perfectly normal childhoods grow up and get hooked on drugs, in prison, rapists or murderers, drunks or otherwise messed up adults - the nice guy next door who turns out to be some psychopath...
Should we hold then the parents to account, instead of him?
Or are we just in saying the man should be punished for his own actions - that he freely made?
If it's just in saying those guilty should be punished - the only thing that seems unjust would be that God saves anyone...
And that is where we see God's mercy.. Because God is both just and merciful, one cannot be separated from the other..
but to pretend Hes not also the Sovereign over creation, is to make Him no God at all..
According to Calvin’s theology God’s expectations are impossible for the unelected to meet and this being in accordance to God’s sovereign plan ultimately makes God responsible for our unrepentant, sinful, and rebellious state since He is in control and obviously has the ability to enable everyone to repent and believe simply by bestowing grace upon them. It’s kind of like if God commanded everyone to fly to Alpha Centauri and said anyone who doesn’t make it there will be thrown into the lake of fire for all eternity. Then He gives some people a ride to Alpha Centauri in a spaceship and leaves the rest to make it there on their own. Is it just that those who were left behind are condemned to suffer for all eternity for not being capable of meeting this impossible expectation even tho there were more than enough seats on the ship that took the others there?
Now here’s the real situation, God has made a way for ALL to be saved. He provided the ship and allows EVERYONE to board it. The problem is some choose not to and as a result of their own choice they will seal their own fate on judgement day. Anyone who desires to repent will be enabled to do so by The Father.
“Opening his mouth, Peter said: "I most certainly understand now that God is not one to show partiality, but in every nation the man who fears Him and does what is right is welcome to Him.”
Acts 10:34-35 NASB
“to those who by perseverance in doing good seek for glory and honor and immortality, eternal life; but to those who are selfishly ambitious and do not obey the truth, but obey unrighteousness, wrath and indignation. There will be tribulation and distress for every soul of man who does evil, of the Jew first and also of the Greek, but glory and honor and peace to everyone who does good, to the Jew first and also to the Greek. For there is no partiality with God. For all who have sinned without the Law will also perish without the Law, and all who have sinned under the Law will be judged by the Law; for it is not the hearers of the Law who are just before God, but the doers of the Law will be justified. For when Gentiles who do not have the Law do instinctively the things of the Law, these, not having the Law, are a law to themselves, in that they show the work of the Law written in their hearts, their conscience bearing witness and their thoughts alternately accusing or else defending them, on the day when, according to my gospel, God will judge the secrets of men through Christ Jesus.”
Romans 2:7-16 NASB