~Anastasia~
† Handmaid of God †
- Dec 1, 2013
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You can also tell your husband that, thanks to the Orthodox Church we have Trinitarian doctrine, a canon of Scripture, no Arianism or Nestorianism, etc.!
Sounds like you're really getting somewhere with him! Throw some Father Hopko his way! Maybe you could leave Bishop Kallistos's "the Orthodox Church" on his side of the bed 'accidentally!'![]()
I have that book.
I don't want to push him. But the thing is, when in the past months, I have struggled with something, finally decided what I think is true, then find the Orthodox Church teaches it, and then ask his opinion - he very effortlessly tells me that very thing. Just from reading the Bible.
(He used to read it through every year, so I don't know how many times he's read it - much more than I have probably.)
And he's so dissatisfied with church right now. He doesn't hold Eucharistic theology (but I did just point out to him the other day - he said to me "Jesus said, 'This represents My body'" and I stopped him and told him no, Jesus never said that. He didn't know where his belief came from, so I need to find out now for him). But he's bothered because the church he was attending only has communion 4 times a year. He holds it in extremely high regard, and has quit going to church over this.
I feel for him though. Church is a foundation of his life, and he needs it, just as I do. And it is failing him right now. I can't push him into the Orthodox Church, and I'm not sure he'd be ready, but I want so badly for him to have what he needs.
I wish I was well-versed in the ECF's so I'd know what to recommend when.
But no, I don't want to push him. I want to help him. It's just hard to know how to do that. But things seem to be going quite well. I'm thankful for that, beyond words.
I will try to find some podcasts he might like. I listen mostly to Orthodoxy Live, but it's a call-in show and ANY topic might come up. I'm not sure that's good at this point, though Fr. Evan's heart shines through in much of what he says, and it has made a great difference for me. But it has taken months of listening to make a cohesive structure for me to set my thinking in and make that change.
A single (wrong) episode might do harm, and not have time to do good.
Then again, I need to not overthink my place in this. I want to help - whatever that looks like. But ultimately, this is in God's hands. I can't be taking over the job of the Holy Spirit. He does it perfectly, and I guarantee I'd mess it up.
Thanks for the encouragement. It means a lot to me.
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