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I had the strangest dream. Was walking on a beach and there were thousands of little salamanders of every color everywhere. They were so cute!! :bigeye: I tried taking pictures of them but it was just a dream so now I don't have any cute salamander pictures.:whyy: :muahah:
That sounds amazing! ^_^ Too bad you can't take pictures of your dreams. :( That would be so cool!

I had a strange dream last night too. I dreamed that I turned into a Charizard! o_O


Good morning CF! :):):):)
Good morning! :clap: I hope it's a blessed day for everybody. :)
 
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You know I alway appreciate your insight.

I appreciate that and enjoy our discourse. :)

I get the impression to you there is no difference in having sex with 1, 10 or a 100 women and it's the same as being knee deep in porn for decades. Personally I think there is a difference in watching porn and actually having sexual intercourse.

We’re addressing chastity. Wikipedia explains it well.

Chastity, also known as purity, is a virtue related to temperance. Someone who is chaste refrains either from sexual activity considered immoral or any sexual activity, according to their state of life.

There is nothing chaste about pornography. It isn’t innocent. The omission of intercourse doesn’t set aside the things you’ve seen and done. You can’t unknow them.

Many have tried to apply various caveats to the word. Permitting masturbation, oral sex, etc. The common denominator with each is sexual. You can’t escape that.

No, you haven’t had intercourse. But you’ve opened the door. That’s not the same as being clueless. It would be interesting to hear from men desiring the same. Would she be a virgin if the situation was identical?

There’s a specific ideal that accompanies the word. Innocent and unspoiled. Each person must decide where the line falls.

If you tell me you’re a virgin and committed to waiting for marriage I don’t expect you’re watching porn, masturbating, stimulating one another or exchanging fluids. That isn’t virginity in my mind.

However, if you tell me you’re abstinent and never had intercourse. But you’ve crossed some lines and learned your lesson and reaffirmed your commitment to wait. That’s a different story.

It’s important your companion accepts you as-is. With all your flaws, mistakes, and insecurities. No one’s perfect. If you have to downplay this or that forget it.

Right now must be enough. We can make improvements. But I can’t change what I’ve done. It happened. And I don’t apologize.

Your experiences have made you the person you are today. You’re growing. Own it.
 
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Welp, the lady who called 22 times yesterday while I was on lunch came in today, demanding a refund for her "defective" glasses that she ran over with a car..........
LOL!! Wow! :ahah:

If only they had put on the warning label not to run over the glasses with the car so people would know not to do it. I wonder what's next, the lawnmower?
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That sounds amazing! ^_^ Too bad you can't take pictures of your dreams. :( That would be so cool!

I had a strange dream last night too. I dreamed that I turned into a Charizard! o_O



Good morning! :clap: I hope it's a blessed day for everybody. :)
Right? xD I have tried so many times taking amazing pictures in my dreams but always awake to none!! Wahhhh!!! :noooo::muahah:

Oh wow!!! That sounds pretty cool actually!!!! ^_^
 
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LOL!! Wow! :ahah:

If only they had put on the warning label not to run over the glasses with the car so people would know not to do it. I wonder what's next, the lawnmower?
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Right? xD I have tried so many times taking amazing pictures in my dreams but always awake to none!! Wahhhh!!! :noooo::muahah:

Oh wow!!! That sounds pretty cool actually!!!! ^_^
Lol, you laugh, but I have had people bring in glasses after they ran them over with the lawn mower xD
 
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Lol, you laugh, but I have had people bring in glasses after they ran them over with the lawn mower xD
Oh my goodness. xD You probably hear everything there!!
now-ive-seen-everything.gif
 
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Right? xD I have tried so many times taking amazing pictures in my dreams but always awake to none!! Wahhhh!!! :noooo::muahah:
Dreams are like your brain goes on vacation, but it doesn't let you come along or bring back any pictures...how rude! :muahah: The only way to get pictures is to try to draw them. :p
 
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You have no idea!!!
A thankful patient tried to set me up with their daughter once ^_^

Haha, Downton Abbey gif!
Oh my goodness, that's too funny!! xD hahaha!

yes ^_^

Dreams are like your brain goes on vacation, but it doesn't let you come along or bring back any pictures...how rude! :muahah: The only way to get pictures is to try to draw them. :p
RIGHT? I mean, what's the big deal, so rude indeed!!! :aarh::ahah:

I guess I could try to draw them, but my dreams are so detailed it would be hard and I am lazy! I need to stop being so lazy!!! xD
 
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RIGHT? I mean, what's the big deal, so rude indeed!!! :aarh::ahah:

I guess I could try to draw them, but my dreams are so detailed it would be hard and I am lazy! I need to stop being so lazy!!! xD
:muahah: That happens to me all the time! I'm too lazy to draw them lol! Of course, sometimes I can't remember all the details either. :laughing:
 
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Oh my goodness, that's too funny!! xD hahaha!

yes ^_^
yeahhhhh xD
She tried to tip me and I told her we couldn't accept tips, so she suggested that she was a very good cook, and could bring me food, which I also declined. Then she told me her daughter is very beautiful :aarh:
 
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