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[DragonFox91]

So I looked at one of my Bible's that has footnotes on what a lot of the names mean, & unfortunately there isn't one for Sarah. I find that interesting b/c she gets her name changed from Sarai. When Abraham gets his name changed, the footnotes express the significance of this by saying what Abraham means. So you'd think there should be a footnote on what Sarah means, but there isn't in this Bible I have.

Interestingly, the footnote for Abraham says it means 'father of many.' In the actual text, Abraham is told Sarai will have her name changed to Sarah & she'll get blessed & be the mother of nations. So maybe Sarah means 'mother of many'? IDK, appears we'd have to do more research into this.

 

[bèlla]

@cara-mia

Pina, You have to see this! A French chateau dollhouse. Look at the rooms!!!

 

[bèlla]

@cara-mia I’ve been so exhausted this week! We’re wrapping up classes and the break is welcome. I went poking around for vitamins. I think I’m missing something.

I found an organic brand. Independent. Great reviews. They have liquid vitamins which the body absorbs much faster. Everyone mentions the energy boost. The site is cheaper but I wanted to get it faster so I ordered from Amazon.

I bought the Essentials + version. But there’s also one for the evenings I may try to help me sleep longer. I’m switching my B-12 too and may get their Vitamin D3+K2.

 

[.Mikha'el.]

Well, I'm going to be making attempt number two at that job. Part of me really worries it's too soon after the last application and that it'll just get shot down.

 

[ReesePiece23]

Does anyone else suffer from direct message procrastination? I'll receive them and start twiddling my thumbs over it. I WANT to reply, but something always blocks me from doing it.

I'm not socially awkward, shy, or anything like that, I just feel like a college student who gets handed an essay brief whenever I receive them. I even LIKE the people I receive them from, and the subsequent correspondence is always nice to read, but when it comes to ME returning the ball, I'm a bit useless.

I guess I'd rather be in a pub or coffee shop with them I suppose. There's a girl
in Canada who emails me from time to time to check in (I've known her years, I'm like a opinion board for her), but if it takes off, the emails get longer, and longer AND longer until you're writing dissertations - and it's just not sustainable.

Then you get the angry follow up a fortnight later, which only deepens the problem. It's even worse on Insta with that 'seen' notification.

 

[Isaiah 2:22]

Does anyone else suffer from direct message procrastination? I'll receive them and start twiddling my thumbs over it. I WANT to reply, but something always blocks me from doing it.

I'm not socially awkward, shy, or anything like that, I just feel like a college student who gets handed an essay brief whenever I receive them. I even LIKE the people I receive them from, and the subsequent correspondence is always nice to read, but when it comes to ME returning the ball, I'm a bit useless.

I guess I'd rather be in a pub or coffee shop with them I suppose. There's a girl
in Canada who emails me from time to time to check in (I've known her years, I'm like a opinion board for her), but if it takes off, the emails get longer, and longer AND longer until you're writing dissertations - and it's just not sustainable.

Then you get the angry follow up a fortnight later, which only deepens the problem. It's even worse on Insta with that 'seen' notification.

Sounds kinda like performance-based procrastination. Especially when you said it reminds you of having to write essays in college. You feel you have to write something that's meaningful and which the other person will like reading, but the thought of "performing" in that way grinds it to a halt. Or, it could be that the procrastination pops up because you feel obliged to do it, rather than it being a spontaneous thing.

 

[cara-mia]

Someone well mannered, mature, masculine and a leader. Not overly religious and outgoing. And seriously chill. We won’t live it down if he isn’t.

Chill is a must! Can’t have the drama it messes with the zen zone!

 

[cara-mia]

@cara-mia

Pina, You have to see this! A French chateau dollhouse. Look at the rooms!!!

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WOW! Incredible! It’s so life like and the details are exquisite.

 

[bèlla]

Chill is a must! Can’t have the drama it messes with the zen zone!

The zen zone? That’s hilarious! I’m snagging it.

 

[bèlla]

WOW! Incredible! It’s so life like and the details are exquisite.

I saw the house and looked him up and found pictures of the rooms. I can’t see him selling it for less than $25K. But it would probably go for $40K given the details. That’s the best I’ve seen.

 

[ReesePiece23]

Sounds kinda like performance-based procrastination. Especially when you said it reminds you of having to write essays in college. You feel you have to write something that's meaningful and which the other person will like reading, but the thought of "performing" in that way grinds it to a halt. Or, it could be that the procrastination pops up because you feel obliged to do it, rather than it being a spontaneous thing.

It could be a combination of ALL of the above. People have a history of expecting a LOT of out me. I used to moderate a mental health forum and would be leaned on as a source of inspiration.

It left noting in the tank for me - as someone who writes fiction. Which is funny, because in the fictional world, I've never had a writing block.

Send me an email though, and that cursor will blink forever more.

 

[public hermit]

I had the experience yesterday of learning that something I was very certain about was, in fact, not accurate. Without going into detail, it concerned something very important to me. Somewhat ironically, I experienced joy in learning this. I was like, "God, I am so grateful. I asked that I wouldn't be mistaken on this issue, and you have shown me that I was." (I had been praying for clarification).

This is not the first time this has happened, but it drives home a particular point for me. I have been mistaken so many times that I know it will happen again. My hope is that these experiences translate into me being more gracious to others. It would be the height of hypocrisy for me to know my own fallibility, and not extend that possibility towards others. God is good.

 

[bèlla]

@cara-mia I just saw this. It looks good! I have some matcha I might make it. Sharing because you green drinks!

Matcha Smoothie

This was right behind it. If you have some Jameson left you can make it.

 

[bèlla]

the zen zone!

Here you go little miss zenstah. We need to frame this.

 

[cara-mia]

Here you go little miss zenstah. We need to frame this.

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BOOM!!! That is 100% it.

 

[bèlla]

BOOM!!! That is 100% it.

I love that quote. Sometimes you need perspective. Everybody wants spoil without the toil. But adversity is part of the journey. You don’t reach the summit without it. Sometimes you’ve gotta suck it up and put your head down and grind. You can’t succumb to every thought or feeling.

When you do you need someone to tell you to knock it off and keep going.

 

[bèlla]

@cara-mia This is hilarious! I took the Personality Type Love Match test and here’s my answer.

Your Match is an ENFJ

For ENFJs, romantic relationships provide an opportunity to make the most satisfying type of human connection. ENFJs crave relationships that are intimate, transformative, authentic and deep, and they probably enjoy falling in love more than any other type. They are nurturing, expressive, kind, encouraging and supportive. When their partners are feeling troubled or depressed, ENFJ partners will do everything in their power to bring the smiles and sunshine back into their lives.

Despite their natural warmth, ENFJs have strong values and a well-developed sense of their own dignity. When they feel a need to defend themselves or correct the mistakes of others, they can be sharp-tongued and direct in their observations and criticisms. But they see conflicts with loved ones as a product of misunderstanding and not bad intentions, and that is why they never stay mad for long. Their standards won’t be compromised, but neither will their commitment to love, and their inherent gentleness prevents them from doing or saying anything that will cause lasting damage.

That sounds nice so far. But this is the dealbreaker!

The Downsides

It is very important for ENFJs to feel noticed, appreciated, cherished and loved—often, as in all the time. This isn’t inspired by insecurity, but rather by their idealistic notions about what love should be. They won’t ask for these things, however; they expect their significant others to offer them automatically without any prompting. So when normally warm and affectionate ENFJs suddenly become quiet and distant, there’s an excellent chance they’re feeling unappreciated and unloved and are worried about the state of their relationships.

That would exhaust me. I’ve never dated a Feeler and that’s probably why. Too high maintenance! The other three letters are right.

 

[cara-mia]

I love that quote. Sometimes you need perspective. Everybody wants spoil without the toil. But adversity is part of the journey. You don’t reach the summit without it. Sometimes you’ve gotta suck it up and put your head down and grind. You can’t succumb to every thought or feeling.

When you do you need someone to tell you to knock it off and keep going.

I got to be at a live speaker event with Rachel Hollis and she said something very similar to that. She said sometimes in life it feels like you are walking through the dark valley of doom but the Lord isn't expecting you to stay there. You have mountains to climb but you DO get to the top. You can't ask for this and just wait. He shows you the light, places tools (be it people or skills) in front of you, and YOU need to get to it. Perhaps this is like a, you asked for it, now show me that you want it and can manage it.

 

[bèlla]

@cara-mia Okay Cuppie, you must find me an ENTJ! I don’t ask for much. Two ENTJs can be a dynamic match.

Here’s some interesting tidbits.

ENTJ is one of the least common types in the population, and the rarest type among women (with INTJ). ENTJs make up:

• 2% of the general population
• 3% of men
• 1% of women

Interesting facts about the ENTJ:

• On personality trait measures, score as Ambitious, Forceful, Optimistic, Egotistical, Adaptable, and Energetic
• Least likely of all types to report stress resulting from work or finances
• More likely than average to suffer cardiac problems
• Among the least likely of all types to believe in a higher spiritual power
• Among top 4 types in college GPA
• Among most likely to stay in college
• Personal values include Home/Family, Achievement, Creativity, and Learning
• Overrepresented among MBA students and small business owners
• One of two types most likely to be satisfied with their work

Career:

• Most likely of all types to earn a high salary
• Most likely of all types to manage a large team
• Least likely of all types to report being unemployed
• Least likely of all types to report being a stay-at-home parent
• Earn more than any other type when self-employed

Hobbies:

Popular hobbies for ENTJs include taking leadership positions in community groups, attending social gatherings or sporting events, and playing competitive sports. Because ENTJs are so often focused on their careers, they may have few interests outside of work, or they may participate in leisure activities that also help to further their careers.
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They’re describing me to a tee. Even the hobbies bit.

This personality type is more appealing than the other. He’s not emoting 24/7. I don’t need that. The combination of togetherness, growth, and a shared outlook is my ideal.

 

[bèlla]

I got to be at a live speaker event with Rachel Hollis and she said something very similar to that.

I LOVE Rachel! Her message was POW. But she was right. Get off the pity pot. Stop feeling sorry for yourself. Girl wash your face! I was all over it.

You can't ask for this and just wait. He shows you the light, places tools (be it people or skills) in front of you, and YOU need to get to it. Perhaps this is like a, you asked for it, now show me that you want it and can manage it.

Exactly. If you’re not in ready mode and moving towards the goal you’ll miss the blessing or fail to recognize it. You don’t see the asset that takes you from Point A to B or opens a door. Because your thinking is limited.

God gives me ideas for people all the time. Usually to help them make money. Proximity has perks. When He puts people together good stuff happens. You have something the other needs.

People who are all-in run in packs. They always find each other. You won’t run into them on the sidelines. They’re on the move. Walking towards their goals.