What's on your mind?

[bèlla]

Did she go by some online screen name?

I don't remember her username. I met her on a forum. She wasn't mean to me. She just enjoyed arguing. That's not my thing.

 

[MehGuy]

I don't remember her username. I met her on a forum. She wasn't mean to me. She just enjoyed arguing. That's not my thing.

What forum was that? Just curious.. would be cool and interesting if it was a Honey Badger woman.. lol.

 

[bèlla]

What forum was that? Just curious.. would be cool and interesting if it was a Honey Badger woman.. lol.

I'm not telling. I think you like them! *lol*

I never conversed with the women. That's why I was surprised. I've spoken to men in that arena. At this point you're the only one I speak to of that stripe. You're calm. Relatively so. *grins*

 

[MehGuy]

I'm not telling. I think you like them! *lol*

I never conversed with the women. That's why I was surprised. I've spoken to men in that arena. At this point you're the only one I speak to of that stripe. You're calm. Relatively so. *grins*

Oh come on.. lol..

and yeah I quite like and respect the Honey Badger women. Lol.

 

[bèlla]

Oh come on.. lol..

and yeah I quite like and respect the Honey Badger women. Lol.

You know enough. *laughs*

I'm not joining them! I think you're doing some subliminal programming. *lol*

 

[MehGuy]

You know enough. *laughs*

I'm not joining them! I think you're doing some subliminal programming. *lol*

Nah, you'd probably grow to like them more if you heard more from them. I guess I can picture one going off on you, but if they knew more about you they'd probably like you more. Lol.

 

[bèlla]

Nah, you'd probably grow to like them more if you heard more from them. I guess I can picture one going off on you, but if they knew more about you they'd probably like you more. Lol.

All jokes aside, I'm particular about women. I like feminine women who are kindhearted and classy. She can be spirited. But I like don't mean girls.

 

[MehGuy]

All jokes aside, I'm particular about women. I like feminine women who are kindhearted and classy. She can be spirited. But I like don't mean girls.

Alright. Not sure I'd call them mean girls.. more women who are fed up with other women and feminism in particular. They don't like feeling damseled.

 

[bèlla]

Alright. Not sure I'd call them mean girls.. more women who are fed up with other women and feminism in particular. They don't like feeling damseled.

I'm not fed up with anyone. There are problems on both sides of the aisle. But moving to a place of disrespect or anger isn't an option for me. That's not how I operate.

When you lead with emotion things usually get out of control. Expressing your dislike is fine. But people like to get down and dirty. I'm not lowering myself for anyone.

There's more than one way to skin a cat.

 

[MehGuy]

I'm not fed up with anyone. There are problems on both sides of the aisle. But moving to a place of disrespect or anger isn't an option for me. That's not how I operate.

When you lead with emotion things usually get out of control. Expressing your dislike is fine. But people like to get down and dirty. I'm not lowering myself for anyone.

There's more than one way to skin a cat.

Well to be fair.. a lot of them identify with being "masculine brained". They grew up being unable to relate to other women.

 

[bèlla]

Well to be fair.. a lot of them identify with being "masculine brained". They grew up being unable to relate to other women.

I wouldn't know what that's like. I'm very feminine and love being a woman. More importantly, I like my sex. We have good and bad within the lot like men do. But I don't despise them or value men more.

 

[MehGuy]

I wouldn't know what that's like. I'm very feminine and love being a woman. More importantly, I like my sex. We have good and bad within the lot like men do. But I don't despise them or value men more.

I don't think they hate being a woman, but how society and feminists view how a woman should be or at least has to be.

 

[bèlla]

I don't think they hate being a woman, but how society and feminists view how a woman should be or at least has to be.

I don't know if they hate being women or not. I don't have any contact with them.

I live my life according to two principles:

I control what's coming in. No one is in my sphere unless I want them here.

I am responsible for my response. Whether it's feminism or something else. I control the affect. If I allow it to get to me it will. If I say it's meaningless then that's it.

If that's your passion or vocation; champion it.

The trouble is we can't accept that. We can't let people do their thing without taking offense because they aren't backing us. Or because they're different. We take it personal. That doesn't bother me.

My investment is the tipping point.

 

[Tone]

Leeeetsssss Goooooo

First Lakers, now Dodgers!!!!


Can the Rams get some??????

Let's hope so!

 

[sunshineforJesus]

Hi Everyone,How are you all?

 

[Tone]

I'm well, and yourself?

 

[sunshineforJesus]

doing good here.

 

[Tone]

I'm sure the others are well...as well.

I certainly hope so.

I'm finding it hard to sleep...

So much to do...

 

[SarahsKnight]

The trouble is we can't accept that. We can't let people do their thing without taking offense because they aren't backing us. Or because they're different. We take it personal.

Why do we do that sometimes, I wonder? As much as I would like to say I've never fallen into that trap, I'm sure I have a few times. But you said it in just the way that I could never pin down, myself: we take it personal for some reason.

 

[SarahsKnight]

Hi Everyone,How are you all?

Oh, you know, just ... still giddy over Erin's adorable face whenever I am so blessed as to be able to gaze upon it for just a moment as we cross paths coming into/out of the lab. ^-^

Much like the good Miss Heidy whose company I had the pleasure of for about nine months there last year (but unfortunately left us to pursue a loftier career goal, and I just liked her as a friend, even though she certainly was a lovely-looking lady ), Miss Erin has the kind of appearance, face, and stature that makes her look just too meek and innocent to be in with that "rough" lab tech crowd that we are overall. Even including me, despite how of course I do desire to keep my words gentle and my voice soft-spoken (but I certainly have failed in that many a time, i admit).

You just look at Erin, speak with her for a moment or two, then listen to 85% of the rest of the lab crew - both man and woman - for just one minute in the typical atmosphere, and you wonder, "How did this girl fall in with this crowd?"