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Yeah, that's probably why my mother ages well. Although I wouldn't mind losing some fat around my jawline, even though I think it looks decent considering the circumstances. I do hate how my face looks in photos. Because the fat can easily wash out my features and I end up looking like some bland ball of goo, lol.

That's fixable. You don't need to fiddle with your skin. Leave the fat alone.
 
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He has an hourglass face shape? What? Wow.

No he doesn't.. he's perfect.. lol.

Hourglass applies to the body. Not the face.

You aren't dating him. Trust me. He needs a makeover.
 
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It never occurred to me try and match the shape of my face with my wardrobe. I'm going to try and forget that, now. ^_^

You can't forget. You're smart like that. Nice try! :D
 
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Hourglass applies to the body. Not the face.

You aren't dating him. Trust me. He needs a makeover.

Alright. For women yeah hourglass shape is the best.

What would you say he should do as far as a makeover is concerned? The shirtless look isn't good enough for him?
 
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That's fixable. You don't need to fiddle with your skin. Leave the fat alone.

Fixable with facial hair.. sadly I cannot grow my sides at all.

I do think I should get liposuction for my face.
 
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You can't forget. You're smart like that. Nice try! :D

I'm horrible. I wear blue and brown and it doesn't bother me a bit, in spite of the fact I've been told they don't go together. I figure if I'm consistent then when it finally becomes fashionable I won't have to try, which is precisely the point, lol.
 
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What would you say he should do as far as a makeover is concerned? The shirtless look isn't good enough for him?

He needs a haircut for starters. The length elongates his face and doesn't add to his appearance. See the difference here? A cut with tapered sides is better. He has a strong brow and mouth. The glasses aren't helping. Contacts and highlights in his hair would be good. The mustache is thin. I'd lose the hair. He has strong cheekbones too.

His best features are hidden. That's the problem.

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Fixable with facial hair.. sadly I cannot grow my sides at all.

I do think I should get liposuction for my face.

Heavens no. Don't get lipo or add hair. You don't know what you'll look like in a decade or two. You're too young to suck anything away. You may have to add it back!
 
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He needs a haircut for starters. The length elongates his face and doesn't add to his appearance. See the difference here? A cut with tapered sides is better. He has a strong brow and mouth. The glasses aren't helping. Contacts and highlights in his hair would be good. The mustache is thin. I'd lose the hair. He has strong cheekbones too.

His best features are hidden. That's the problem.

He said in a video once he purposely tries to make his face look as long as possible. I think even one time he sported a Hitler mustache although I am not sure if that photo was photoshopped or not.
 
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Heavens no. Don't get lipo or add hair. You don't know what you'll look like in a decade or two. You're too young to suck anything away. You may have to add it back!

Don't worry I'll save the fat in a bag and place it in my freezer just in case I ever need it back. Lol.
 
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I'm horrible. I wear blue and brown and it doesn't bother me a bit, in spite of the fact I've been told they don't go together. I figure if I'm consistent then when it finally becomes fashionable I won't have to try, which is precisely the point, lol.

But you'd let me dress you. You're sensible. It would free up time for reading and other pursuits. That's a win/win. ;)
 
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He said in a video once he purposely tries to make his face look as long as possible. I think even one time he sported a Hitler mustache although I am not sure if that photo was photoshopped or not.

He's special and requires a special soul to appreciate him. :p
 
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He gets about 100k a video on average.

That will draw an attractive prospect.

Did you ever watch The Millionaire Matchmaker? You should. You'd learn a lot. All her clients were wealthy. But money isn't a shoo-in. A lot of the guys assumed they could get a 10+ woman and she had to bring them down to earth.
 
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I think the idea with the tests is your default more so than situational responses. For instance, I'm an extrovert and an 3. When I went to Whole Foods and Starbucks it wasn't uncommon to see me laughing with employees or hugging someone. The same held true at Michael's, Jo-Ann's, and all my haunts.

Whether I'm in a familiar setting or not doesn't matter. Building a rapport is easy. I know how to connect and work a room. My communication skills are very strong. That's the primary reason I'm comfortable in environments that aren't diverse. I don't feel out of place. :)
That's interesting. I'm borderline extrovert and can most likely converse with anybody. One thing I have noticed most of my life is that anywhere I go, it's not uncommon for someone to want to speak with me. Today while I was picking up some last minute Christmas ingredients, a store employee was restocking and asked me if I was ready for Christmas. I said pretty much and she said she wasn't. she started to converse with me about what to get one of her sons. I told her that she could put her son's age in an Amazon search with gift and she might get some ideas. Load up the cart with different ideas and then make a decision. Her eyes lit up and she said that was smart and that she would probably do that. She walked away gleefully. And there's times that I cringe when everyone wants to talk to me and I just want to do my business and get out. I've even had people who tell me their life story in the grocery store of how they move to that location and maybe from another country, it's weird. I even made a friend once when I was at the airport in Germany, he saw me sitting by myself and came to talk with me. We probably emailed for a little while.
 
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That will draw an attractive prospect.

Did you ever watch The Millionaire Matchmaker? You should. You'd learn a lot. All her clients were wealthy. But money isn't a shoo-in. A lot of the guys assumed they could get a 10+ woman and she had to bring them down to earth.

Never seen it.

What did these millionaires look like?
 
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