What exactly happens after we die?
On one end, people say our souls go to their eternal destination. Heaven or hell.
On the other end, people say that our entirety, our whole being, our "soul" (which is used to refer to the entirety of a person and NOT something separate) goes to sleep in the grave to wake up in the resurrection of the dead, the day when earth will be renewed.
I ask that aside from just picking an answer, you explain why you think so too.
Thank you.
The new testament verse states that the human being is made up of spirit, soul, and body. (see 1 Thes.5:23).
And, that the soul is made up of the mind, the will, and the emotions. Often spoken of as the whole heart (see Ps.138:1; 2 Chron.15:15), in other cases the whole heart also involves the body, as in worship and praise, to lift up one's hands; to dance.
There are verses in the Bible where it specifically talks about the spirit man only (see Rm.7:22), the soul only (see Jam.1:21), and the body only (1 Cor.6:13). Therefore, they are separate yet parts of the whole.
The Bible speaks of the dead as asleep, that is only in regard of how a person looks when dead, they only look like they are sleeping. Except when examined it's realized that they aren't breathing, their heart not pumping, so they are dead. (see John 11:11-14).
The soul does not sleep when the body is dead. The soul is not asleep when a person goes to bed at night. The spirit and soul produces dreams in the night while the body is at rest.
The Bible states in 2 Cor.5:8-9 "To be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord."
This is a clear indication that when the body functionings stop, the spirit and soul departs from the body to arise up into heaven. The common phrase of Christians is that the loved one has gone to be with the Lord. The apostle Paul wrote in Eph.3:14 of those of family in heaven and those of family on earth. In Hebrews 12:23 it speaks of the spirits of men made perfect to be residing in heaven.
Then at the rapture and resurrection, those dead bodies in the grave are reunited with their spirit and soul to become glorified (see 1 Thes.4:13-18; 1 Cor.15:50-54) When the spirit departs from the body, the spirit-person has a spirit body that looks exactly like their physical body, including clothing.
The believers are likened to Jesus when he had been raised from the dead and glorified (1 Pet.1:21).
Any doctrine that states that there is soul sleep which requires at death that the soul remain with the dead body, has to fallaciously ignore these verses of scripture which don't support that doctrine.