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There's a reason why it's supposed to be. Jesus said that we will be judged according to what measure we use to judge others and the merciful will receive mercy. But that mercy is not to be squandered. The flesh dies on the cross.@Bradskii someone keeps unintentionally adding weight to your perception of conservatives
Many gay people keep it secret from their families because of such intolerance, so while you might well be correct in this for your family, there are many families in which such secrets exist.
I think the scriptures are clear in condemning sin. But God didn’t appoint me to be the judge or the avenger. It’s my place to treat everyone the way I would like to be treated. That’s what I try to do. I don’t condone the sin or promote it. But it’s not my place to tell others what to do unless they ask for my opinion or advice.There's a reason why it's supposed to be. Jesus said that we will be judged according to what measure we use to judge others and the merciful will receive mercy. But that mercy is not to be squandered. The flesh dies on the cross.
Jesus suffered and by his stripes we are healed, and he gave his blood, his life, so that sins may be forgiven. So, there are two sides by which we approach the power of the cross and there are two ways to receive the Gospel, for the Word of God is sharper than any two-edged sword. There is accuse and excuse both coming and going.
God is gathering in His grace through faith. Some people will see the wrath of God in the crucifixion, and some people will see the loving mercy of God in the crucifixion. Therefore, some preach mercy and understanding towards sinners, and some preach the fear of God with fire and brimstone. This is why we must try to be objective. This is the Menorah and the two olive trees, where two sides share the same oil. One side must understand the other side to find Christ in the middle and the closer they approach the center the brighter the Menorah becomes as the lamp fills with oil.
If a person out of love feels in their conscience the duty to rebuke sin, God sees it. If a gay person in their conscience is merciful and understanding towards those who persecute them, God sees it. The cross is at the center between the Old Covenant and the New Covenant and fulfills both. Judge not lest you be judged applies two ways when we see objectively with both eyes.
Matthew 13:52
52 Then said he unto them, Therefore every scribe which is instructed unto the kingdom of heaven is like unto a man that is an householder, which bringeth forth out of his treasure things new and old.
I hear you. Our actions affect others in a society. When I have to correct someone it's almost always about their being selfish, including with mercy. I don't want to have to correct people, but since I like being corrected, it's treating others as I would want to be treated.I think the scriptures are clear in condemning sin. But God didn’t appoint me to be the judge or the avenger. It’s my place to treat everyone the way I would like to be treated. That’s what I try to do. I don’t condone the sin or promote it. But it’s not my place to tell others what to do unless they ask for my opinion or advice.
You guys? I don't know why you would feel bad and I hope you don't. That was not my intention.Ok so why do you guys try to make us Christians sound like we are bad or something?
I think that is revealing. There was nothing good about the days when being gay carried a stigma, when people's lives were blighted by hostility and hatred. When heterosexual people 'flaunt their sexuality' most people actually approve. It sounds like double standards to me.In the good ol days, they used to be discrete and not flaunt their sexulity
That's true. And I'm trying not to tar every conservative with the same brush. But there are so many with the same attitudes that it's hard separating the wheat from the chaff at times.@Bradskii someone keeps unintentionally adding weight to your perception of conservatives
Actually it is hard to find any wheat among the chaff.*That's true. And I'm trying not to tar every conservative with the same brush. But there are so many with the same attitudes that it's hard separating the wheat from the chaff at times.
But c'mon. We both know @Whyayeman well enough to know there was no real bad intent. A 'cheap shot' has no humour intended. His comment should raise a wry smile from both sides of the debate and is an opportunity for a dig back ('and youn are the wheat? Corn more like it...').To quote you: this is just snide
It’s all in fun, just giving back a little of his own medicineBut c'mon. We both know @Whyayeman well enough to know there was no real bad intent. A 'cheap shot' has no humour intended. His comment should raise a wry smile from both sides of the debate and is an opportunity for a dig back ('and youn are the wheat? Corn more like it...').
Or maybe that could have been 'a wry smile.'
"Gay is icky" and "getting it on [you]" isn't in scripture.
I really don't care. It seems that just about anything at all can be justified by reference to scripture.
Man I quoted you. You said what you said. Now if you weren't clear enough for me then that's something else. On forums like this we all say things and then later have to clarify what we meant. After all you know what you meant. I don't. I just have to go by what you said. And you said people were using pride parades to create outrage using propaganda. I even believe you used the word lying.No, I didn't say what you think I said. Let's get something straight. You or I don't get to say what the other person means and then criticize them based on our own mischaracterization.