Perhaps it would be helpful to re-post part of what Fr. Thomas Hopko wrote: [emphasis mine]
One of the most unfortunate developments took place when men began to debate the reality of Christ's Body and Blood in the eucharist. While some said that the eucharistic gifts of bread and wine were the real Body and Blood of Christ, others said that the gifts were not real, but merely the symbolic or mystical presence of the Body and Blood. The tragedy in both of these approaches is that what is real came to be opposed to what is symbolic or mystical.
Fr. Thomas seems to think that: (1)Christian thinking (in the West?) became polarized into two inadequate or incomplete positions, and (2) his last sentence here is very clear about the loss of the Eastern symbol/reality relationship.
Either I'm missing the boat, or everything in Orthodoxy is iconic, and the symbol/reality relationship is sacred and essential. I think this may be the primary reason many of us have some difficulty with the concept of transubstantiation. We do not object to the notion of change, but to the notion of something being taken away in the change, and transubstantiation carries that kind of connotation even if such connotation is not intended. To us, I think, the change is a making whole, with no losses, and, as Fr. Thomas said, two things becoming one. It is incarnational. This is not consubstantiation, either, since in that, the two things continue to exist side by side, but not as one.