Here is the perfect scenario. The soldiers are coming to take Jesus away. Peter obviously sees this as a criminal act. Jesus, in Peter's mind, has done nothing to deserve this. So Peter acts defensively, he is defending against a coming threat. Peter cuts off the guard's ear. If Jesus is as pacifistic as you make Him out to be, He should have rebuked Peter up and down, He should have told him to get rid of his weapon and that he doesn't need that weapon at all to defend himself, because God will provide.
But we don't see that do we? No, we don't. We see Jesus telling him to put his weapon back at his side. Why? Because that's where a weapon on an unbeliever belongs, at his side, in easy reach, if a situation where it would be needed should arise. You are in agreement with what Jesus says here, yet you rail against Christians owning and using weapons of any kind. The reaction you need from Jesus to solidify your case for pacifism, is not present in the scriptures. We see Jesus telling people to buy weapons and keep them at their side, ready for use. I mean, why else would anyone have a sidearm? For decoration purposes? We don't see Him telling anyone who has a weapon to get rid of it, or lay it down if they do have one. You're dead in the water on this issue. Jesus isn't even in agreement with you here and yet you claim He's teaching you.