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Want Advice from Younger Women on Marriage with an Older Man

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I would like to ask a question from younger women 21-33.

For reasons I will not go into here, I am only attracted to women in the ages 23-30 (21-33 absolute limits). To save time I will not go into the reasons here but if you private message me I give the details. I am in my mid-50s, but do look younger.

I want to emphasis strongly than I am talking about being attracted to ONLY Christian woman in that age group, with a view of entering in LIFETIME commitment, and having it be fully SUBJECTED to ALL of God’s commands concerning marriage.

I know they such a union between a couple with a large age difference is not prohibited in the Bible, in fact, gives examples of it.

But I do not want to be in a one-sided marriage where a younger women would meet the special needs I have I would not have anything to offer her.

So I would want a younger women’s prospective on what an older man could offer them or how general they would view the relational aspects of such a union.

In order to save time, since many talk about the older man having much more experience than the younger partner I might add that I am virgin and had no romantic relations with women.

So if a woman in that age bracket could give me some advice or if a women who married an older man when she was that age bracket I would appreciate your comments.

In other places I when I asked the question of whether such a union was in fact Biblical, the universal reply was is was not prohibited in the Bible and that God could, in fact, bless such a union. But I received many bitter and malevolent posts and private messages, all from older woman, which I do not want to receive again.

Here I am, a rarity among men, who totally abstained from sex for over 50 years—it was not easy—because I wanted to follow all of God’s commands, and yet I find myself being vehemently attacked by Christians. That really wounded me.

So please . . . serious and constructive posts or private messages pertaining only to the specific questions I am asking.
 
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