A woman can conceive a child right up to menopause, which isn't usually until after 50. I think my nan was into her 40s when she had my uncle.
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The women I date tend to be insecure, and I'm very attracted to that.
I've heard that confidence is the most attractive quality that a man can have, and while I used to be extremely confident in myself, over time I've created a dense shell around myself to cope with rejection.
Everything in my life points towards being capable of attracting higher class women. Except I'm not because I'm so horrendously insecure.
But God forbid I talk to a woman I'm attracted to.
BadI don't chat on text because I want to save any important conversations face to face.
What do you find attractive about their insecurity?
Why?
What is a high class woman in your vernacular?
The stakes are different. They're judging your work not your person. The discomfort is understandable.
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I agree to some extent, but face-to-face, if she's the one, there'll always be important conversations or conversations worth having face-to-face
They probably don't think you're that interested in them.
Text, text, text.
Try that.
If that doesn't work, another option could be to just tell a girl you don't like to text b/c you value face-to-face converstaion. Have you ever done that?
A woman can conceive a child right up to menopause, which isn't usually until after 50. I think my nan was into her 40s when she had my uncle.
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You should be texting them a lot. That's how you build the connection. Anyone who tells you you shouldn't be texting a lot doesn't know what they're talking about. Actual phone calls? Yes, those shouldn't be a lot. But texting is a must. Whatever comes to mind. Casual stuff. Stuff you think she'd be interested in. Things you find funny. Things you're doing. Whatever!
Try that.
I pretty much set everything up, I read somewhere that women like it when men take charge. Even though I could care less about where we ate.
If I have the choice of marrying an intelligent Godly woman who's 40...or 20...I'm going with the 20 year old.
I went on my first date in 2003 before I had a mobile phone. In fact, I didn't have a mobile until my second year of college -and even then, I used it pretty sparingly until well into the 2010s. The best dating years of my life were before I had a phone.
"Meet me tonight at seven" I'd say. Then on the Friday, I'd say "see you on Monday."
Not only did it keep the excitement of seeing them alive, it created unpredictability - the good kind. So always, always, always save the deep conversations for the date. Text sporadically and keep it short and sweet. Otherwise, it waters down the experience when you actually do see them.
Being with someone that's less secure than me makes me feel more secure about myself.
Who doesn't want a sophisticated partner? Someone to discuss your thoughts and beliefs with?
That's what terrifies me lol
You're playing to your fear. Your partner should help you grow and transcend your shortcomings. Not reinforce them. Someone more secure would offset the weakness and strengthen you in that area.
Can you articulate what that means? Your perspective of high class may differ from the readers. We want to be on the same page.
Paint me a picture. What is she like?
You my friend are speaking my language
What woman is going to go out with a guy that's very insecure?
Alright, here is my ideal woman: Easy going, kind, Godly, forgiving, quirky. Someone who can be ready to take a vacation in a moments notice. Concerned about her health and well being. Preferable I would like for her to be talkative and engaging. If she has a problem with me, I would like to be informed about it, and seek to make changes.
I don't have high physical standards. As long as they're not overweight I'm good.
You might think that. Another man might not. Guess who she's hearing from?Different strokes for different folks and all, but *I* like to wonder about her almost as much as I like to create the mystique myself.
When you see a street performer eating glass, levitating off the floor, and juggling flaming clubs, you're utterly mesmerised. But when they reveal their secrets to you - especially when it's right off the bat, you're like, ah... 'kay. Whatever then.
If you want her to contribute to the household the most obvious choice is a digital entrepreneur.
I know that one really well.
You might think that. Another man might not. Guess who she's hearing from?
I want her to do whatever her heart desires. I work from home, so if she wants to stay home by all means. If she wants to work that's fine as well.
As far as digital entrepreneurs go, how should I go about meeting these women?