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[Sign Of The Fish Burger]

Ugh... ALL of my friends are getting pregnant. I just want to cry.... I just found out that one of my bridesmaid's is having her SECOND baby....

 

[felinity]

I feel your pain.

 

[lovesdolphins]

I can't believe it's been nearly 2 years, and I don't have a baby, or even a pregnancy - I'm almost at the point of giving up.

 

[jenrenee]

I know... it's been two years for me too... so hard to deal with! I did get to see my niece yesterday - she was born in the morning - JaeLynn Mariah - she is absolutely beautiful. I want one of my own sooooo bad though, now. as if I didn't before...

 

[MissyMolly]

Just wanted to show my face and remind you all that I am praying and holding you in my thoughts.

I love this verse in the bible so I thought I would share it.

Philippians 4:13 I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.

Stay strong in Him always girls.

I started my P last night :-( My P has never been so heavy as since I have been TTC.

Speak soon xx

 

[Catholic Wife]

How is everyone doing?

I just started my 2ww. Sometimes this is the hardest part for me - knowing I've ovulated, but waiting to see if things worked out.

 

[lovesdolphins]

I can't be sure that I've ovulated yet, but even if I have it's a moot point this month.

I'm not having a good month.

 

[Catholic Wife]

I can't be sure that I've ovulated yet, but even if I have it's a moot point this month.

I'm not having a good month.

I'm sorry to hear this!

that things get better.

 

[Sign Of The Fish Burger]

Well I just got back from the fertility specialist- I have severe endo and apparently some blood lying in my uterus (he said possibly from a ruptured cyst or the endo). I will be having the surgery within the next 2 weeks. He will be lazering off the endo and also doing the dye thing to flush out my fallopian tubes. He said right after is the best time to achieve pregnancy and if I don't get pregnant within the next 3-4 months we will go down other roads.

 

[-~Truth_N_Trust~-]

Well I just got back from the fertility specialist- I have severe endo and apparently some blood lying in my uterus (he said possibly from a ruptured cyst or the endo). I will be having the surgery within the next 2 weeks. He will be lazering off the endo and also doing the dye thing to flush out my fallopian tubes. He said right after is the best time to achieve pregnancy and if I don't get pregnant within the next 3-4 months we will go down other roads.

hope it goes well...

 

[Catholic Wife]

Well I just got back from the fertility specialist- I have severe endo and apparently some blood lying in my uterus (he said possibly from a ruptured cyst or the endo). I will be having the surgery within the next 2 weeks. He will be lazering off the endo and also doing the dye thing to flush out my fallopian tubes. He said right after is the best time to achieve pregnancy and if I don't get pregnant within the next 3-4 months we will go down other roads.

I hope it all works out well. I had an HSG a month ago and it wasn't too bad; I had just a little pain during the procedure and some cramping afterwards. I'm praying for a BFP by the end of the year.

 

[beccasmommy]

hello every one it is official we have stopped trying... sort of I have lost track of when af is due and when my o day is and all that ttc stuff, if it happens it happens and if not then cest la vie the ball is in the Lord's court now and He's gonna do what He wants Good Luck to all

 

[jenrenee]

beccasmommy: I really wish that I could do what you are doing - and quit trying. I've told myself that's what I need to do, but I always find myself getting back into it each month. I go in tomorrow for more blood tests - but prob wont' know anything for a couple weeks. In the meantime, I am really enjoying my niece, who is now 1 week old. She's so precious... but it breaks my heart to hold her and know that I could have been holding my own... I just have some tough days sometime.

On a completely different subject, a co-worker of mine was flown to the hospital today - with heart trouble. We're all very worried about him and I know how wonderful all you ladies are - and was hoping you all might say a prayer for him. Thanks so much!!

 

[annaapple]

I can't believe it's been nearly 2 years, and I don't have a baby, or even a pregnancy - I'm almost at the point of giving up.

I can't be sure that I've ovulated yet, but even if I have it's a moot point this month.

I'm not having a good month.

hello every one it is official we have stopped trying... sort of I have lost track of when af is due and when my o day is and all that ttc stuff, if it happens it happens and if not then cest la vie the ball is in the Lord's court now and He's gonna do what He wants Good Luck to all

I know lots of people who got pregnant right after truly giving up - it seems to be the cheapest fertility treatment...

for everyone

 

[beccasmommy]

we are not TRYING for a baby we still want one but we are letting God take this one and leaving it at that I have no idea what CD I am or anything but still praying for my partner

 

[jenrenee]

Hey everyone! It's been awhile since anyone has been in here! AF showed today - but we didn't try this month so I wasn't surprised. I had my additional blood tests done this past Wednesday and DH will have his this coming Friday - to compare our blood, I guess. If everything comes back normal, we may decide to just give it up. At least for a year or so. It's just too hard on me to go through all this. I guess I'll decide once we hear back from my doctor. Will keep praying for everyone here!!

 

[annaapple]

See my comment above about giving up... But a big hug in the meantime. The pain just stays totally harsh, doesn't it, instead of becoming numb. So hard.

Not wanting to rub anyone's nose in it, and I understand totally that it would only be right for this news to be received with mixed feelings but... I'm 12 weeks along.

When I got the BFP I always thought I would come straight here and tell you all, but dh was not happy with anyone knowing. So I had to wait. Scan today was fine, so now it is public here and IRL.

Have kept and will keep praying for all of you.

may God bless you all abundantly

 

[lovesdolphins]

See my comment above about giving up... But a big hug in the meantime. The pain just stays totally harsh, doesn't it, instead of becoming numb. So hard.

Not wanting to rub anyone's nose in it, and I understand totally that it would only be right for this news to be received with mixed feelings but... I'm 12 weeks along.

When I got the BFP I always thought I would come straight here and tell you all, but dh was not happy with anyone knowing. So I had to wait. Scan today was fine, so now it is public here and IRL.

Have kept and will keep praying for all of you.

may God bless you all abundantly

You are correct - the news is received with mixed feelings, but I am honestly happy for you.

I cry nearly every single day, it's freaking HARD!!!!!!! I made an appointment with an RE on Friday, but I'm terrified that they won't find anything wrong, and we don't have the money to pay for the expensive treatments that may be necessary.

A lady that I work with is returning tomorrow from maternity leave - she's going to be sitting just across from me, it's going to be hard b/c I know she'll be talking about her baby, and I won't be able to avoid hearing the conversations. Sorry about being a bitter betty - I need to go.

 

[jenrenee]

Not wanting to rub anyone's nose in it, and I understand totally that it would only be right for this news to be received with mixed feelings but... I'm 12 weeks along.

annaapple!! Yay!! CONGRATULATIONS!!!! Yes, I'm totally jealous... but... I know that everyone on this forum has been trying as hard as and wanting a baby as much as me and some more than me, and so there is absolutely NO hard feelings - I'm just sooo happy for you!!! Since I've been coming in here, I've only seen a couple BFP's and am always thrilled to see another - because it gives hope to the rest of us - it can happen - and it does!! Again, I'm so happy for you!! And don't be afraid to keep us updated here - it's hard for us, but it was hard for you too... and one day it will be our turn - so soak it up!! Def keep us updated on your progress and enjoy your pregnancy!!

You are correct - the news is received with mixed feelings, but I am honestly happy for you.

I cry nearly every single day, it's freaking HARD!!!!!!! I made an appointment with an RE on Friday, but I'm terrified that they won't find anything wrong, and we don't have the money to pay for the expensive treatments that may be necessary.

A lady that I work with is returning tomorrow from maternity leave - she's going to be sitting just across from me, it's going to be hard b/c I know she'll be talking about her baby, and I won't be able to avoid hearing the conversations. Sorry about being a bitter betty - I need to go.

Hey there! I too cry not every day, but just about. Yesterday was bad for me. My sis brought her baby home to my parents house. I was there while they were bundling her up to take her to his parents. I thought - I should be taking MY baby to visit the family... it really was hard for me - although I love that baby to pieces. And I also have a co-worker I see every day that will be coming back to work soon - she brought her baby in a couple days ago. That makes two here at work - two sisters - and two friends of mine... argh! It's so hard!! And it's a strange feeling - to be truly happy for them - but to hate that it's not me.
Good luck with your RE appt, though!! I finally did testing too and was afraid of the same thing - not finding anything. So far, they haven't. And we can't afford to do the HSG test at this time, which is a big reason we are thinking of giving up for awhile if the blood tests are all fine.

 

[felinity]

Not wanting to rub anyone's nose in it, and I understand totally that it would only be right for this news to be received with mixed feelings but... I'm 12 weeks along.

Congratulations, and I pray God's blessings for a happy and healthy pregnancy for you.

You are correct - the news is received with mixed feelings, but I am honestly happy for you.

I cry nearly every single day, it's freaking HARD!!!!!!! I made an appointment with an RE on Friday, but I'm terrified that they won't find anything wrong, and we don't have the money to pay for the expensive treatments that may be necessary.

A lady that I work with is returning tomorrow from maternity leave - she's going to be sitting just across from me, it's going to be hard b/c I know she'll be talking about her baby, and I won't be able to avoid hearing the conversations. Sorry about being a bitter betty - I need to go.

It's so hard - I know. Every couple of months, my church does baby dedications, and every time, I start sobbing and can't stop. I always wonder if the people behind me can tell that I'm crying like a ninny.