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It's frustrated tonight, you wish you could stop wanting to be married but can't deny God says it's good & desirable.

Oh well, music in church was good today. Good messages. Lot to rejoice over tho your flesh (sinful nature) don't want to

The truth is a lot of people were created to be single
 
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It's frustrated tonight, you wish you could stop wanting to be married but can't deny God says it's good & desirable.

Oh well, music in church was good today. Good messages. Lot to rejoice over tho your flesh (sinful nature) don't want to

The truth is a lot of people were created to be single
Utilize The Keys.

"I will give you the keys of the kingdom of heaven, and whatever you bind on earth shall be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven" Matthew 16.

"And I will place on his shoulder the key of the house of David; he shall open, and none shall shut; and he shall shut, and none shall open" Isaiah 22.

"Do not be afraid. I am the First and the Last. I am the Living One; I was dead, and now look, I am alive forever! And I hold the keys of death and Hades" Revelation 2.
 
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Utilize The Keys.

"I will give you the keys of the kingdom of heaven, and whatever you bind on earth shall be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven" Matthew 16.

"And I will place on his shoulder the key of the house of David; he shall open, and none shall shut; and he shall shut, and none shall open" Isaiah 22.

"Do not be afraid. I am the First and the Last. I am the Living One; I was dead, and now look, I am alive forever! And I hold the keys of death and Hades" Revelation 2.
& the Lord is the Door!

Hmm, I'm not sure what you're trying to say, but we know the Lord is the Door. A Key is useless w/out the Door. This is helpful
 
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The Lord is enough, always enough. He's always loving each of his children to the fullest extent possible. You can't add to that. He says he will provide for us all that we need. If he cares for those who don't care for him how much more does he care for his children! If you're his child you've been chosen for his incredible work.
 
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Just as everyone has a master, everyone is married to someone and/or something. If you are married to the Lord, be faithful like a marital covenant
If you could time travel back 2000 years to the time of Jesus, would you prefer to be single or married?

Whatever choice you make, I believe we can all find our way to prioritize our relationship with Him.
 
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If you could time travel back 2000 years to the time of Jesus, would you prefer to be single or married?
Oh, I see your point.

I guess would you be the same person as you are today if you lived in a different time period.

& there were those who Jesus called in the flesh who still wanted to be married.

Whatever choice you make, I believe we can all find our way to prioritize our relationship with Him.
Yep, true
 
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You hear 'be happy b/c God is always working' a lot in Christian communities.

Last night I stumbled across this. I wasn't familiar w/ this quote from Jesus,

"My Father is always at his work to this very day, and I too am working" John 5

Who or what do you think he is working on? What work do you think he is doing? What or who do you think he is working for? Do you think he will finish his work to completion?
 
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We Christians often think about the great grace given to us by our Lord. But think about when another human being showed you great grace. Was it the outcome you were expecting? Did you think you deserved it? If the roles were reversed, would you have handed it the same & given great grace? Where does that great grace come from?
 
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So the breath / ghost that God breathed into Adam & therefore all us must be different from the Holy Ghost given to some of us by Jesus

I been thinking about are connection to God thru Adam a lot lately.
 
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Today in church we discussed singles who want to be married & are not is not a sign of God's judgement on them.
Here are the notes from the revelant part of the discussion!

A lot of people think Biblical mandate for having children b/c God tells man to multiply in Genesis & tells Abraham how many his children will be, & how children benefit us (your family line & social expectation).
But God says we are really his children.
Zechariah & Elizabeth would've thought God was punishing them & they weren't being obedient enough, or they did something wrong, or it was b/c of their parents' sin, but God saw them as righteous. When we make mistakes, yes, there are consequences, but God is working his grace thru them.
 
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Here are the notes from the revelant part of the discussion!

A lot of people think Biblical mandate for having children b/c God tells man to multiply in Genesis & tells Abraham how many his children will be, & how children benefit us (your family line & social expectation).
But God says we are really his children.
Zechariah & Elizabeth would've thought God was punishing them & they weren't being obedient enough, or they did something wrong, or it was b/c of their parents' sin, but God saw them as righteous. When we make mistakes, yes, there are consequences, but God is working his grace thru them.
Shortly after I posted that I stumbled across one of those Christian Traditionalist pages saying how good marriage is & how God says it's good & you should get married b/c God said so, & I just felt heartbroken.

What if you want to but can't.

I would like to be married so much, there doesn't seem to be any route for me :disappointed:
 
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“If I said something wrong,” Jesus replied, “testify as to what is wrong. But if I spoke the truth, why did you strike me?” John 18.

“You say that I am a king. The reason I was born and came into the world is to testify to the truth. Everyone on the side of truth listens to me.”

“What is truth?” retorted Pilate. With this, he went out again to the Jews gathered there and said, “I find no basis for a charge against him.

Jesus answered, “My kingdom is not of this world; if it were, My servants would fight to prevent My arrest"

God raised him up, loosing the pangs of death, because it was not possible for him to be held by it. Acts 2.


Who is The Risen King? Truth. The Word of God. And The Word Became Flesh.
 
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I been so sad lately about marriage & how I don't think I can be married. It's so heartbreaking. My singleness just goes on and on and on. It's like one isn't for me. I been doing well posting here & at good discussions at church, but I just never get married. It's like it's never enough. It's so sad. It's like I can't. I try hard but it's never enough. I can't get married & It's so heartbreaking.

I been thinking about this parable. I remember walking into the Thanksgiving banquet this year & thinking of the Great Banquet yet to come. It is a parable of the Great Banquet.

"When you give a banquet, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, the blind...............At the time of the banquet he sent his servant to tell those who had been invited.....................But they all alike began to make excuses..................Then the owner of the house became angry and ordered his servant, ‘Go out quickly into the streets and alleys of the town and bring in the poor, the crippled, the blind and the lame................," Luke 14
“If I said something wrong,” Jesus replied, “testify as to what is wrong. But if I spoke the truth, why did you strike me?” John 18.

“You say that I am a king. The reason I was born and came into the world is to testify to the truth. Everyone on the side of truth listens to me.”

“What is truth?” retorted Pilate. With this, he went out again to the Jews gathered there and said, “I find no basis for a charge against him.

Jesus answered, “My kingdom is not of this world; if it were, My servants would fight to prevent My arrest"

God raised him up, loosing the pangs of death, because it was not possible for him to be held by it. Acts 2.


Who is The Risen King? Truth. The Word of God. And The Word Became Flesh.
Here's some more :)

"I will send him to you. When he comes, he will prove the world to be in the wrong about sin and righteousness and judgment. He, the Spirit of Truth, comes. He will guide you into all the truth. He will not speak on his own; he will speak only what he hears, and he will tell you what is yet to come.......... The Spirit will receive from me what he will make known to you.” - John 16

"Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled" Ephesians 6

Aids for Truth.

You see a picture of blind people feeling a different elephant, they all have an idea of what it is, it's usually a parable to illustrate different people have an idea of what something is & neither is wrong b/c they can't know it, but the Truth is there, an elephant is an elephant. It doesn't change based on what an individual is feeling.
 
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