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[TheTrueWay]

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[SigurdReginson]

Have you talked to them about this? I wonder if they could be oblivious to the fact that they are making you feel this way.

 

[TheTrueWay]

No I haven't. I'm still feeling mixed up about it. It's too uncomfortable.

 

[TheTrueWay]

If they value other people more what can I do?

 

[SigurdReginson]

No I haven't. I'm still feeling mixed up about it. It's too uncomfortable.

Hmmm... Communication is an important part in any relationship, I feel. From their perspective, they may think that they were making time to talk to you without understanding that you might feel pushed aside since you didn't have their undivided attention; especially since this isn't the first time it's happened.

If you were to talk to them about it, what would you tell them? Tell me as though you were talking to them.

 

[TheTrueWay]

I cant . It's too awkward.

 

[SigurdReginson]

I cant . It's too awkward.

Well, it may be awkward for your friend, but I'm just some guy on the internet. Let me have it.

 

[TheTrueWay]

Thanks I realise I have to say something. I think it's to do with self worth. I think best not to rehearse it. Ineed to think it through.

Thank you.

 

[SigurdReginson]

Thanks I realise I have to say something. I think it's to do with self worth. I think best not to rehearse it. Ineed to think it through.

Thank you.

Ok! I wish you luck.

 

[Unqualified]

Standing up for yourself is sometimes important. And enduring chastisement is sometimes important too. I’ll let you decide which is best. I didn’t get to read what you said. Self worth is important, you are worth what Jesus did for you. He made you worthy of heaven. Yah just have to get mad sometimes and do something strong because you value yourself. You don’t want to be slighted unnecessarily. It’d make you feel better.