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Tissue there is a difference between knowledge and wisdom. Wisdom does come with age even if that is a foreign concept to you. Whether or not you like it also - you wont understand that concept untill you get older.
Um, wisdom is not TALENT or even knowledge or ability - or gifting by God or calling by God...Wisdom comes with age??????
Maybe yopu need to learn your history.
Mozart published is fisrt opera at 14. Eward Rutledge signed the Declaration of Independence at the ripe old age of 26. Jonathan Dayton was also 26 when he signed the Constitution. And Albert Einstein had his most productive year in 1905 when he was--you guessed it--26.
Now can we PLEASE get back to the OP??????
I'm not PURITANICAL, I cover up my boobs and genitals like a normal person.
Don't call me puritanical as an insult when you haven't even seen me.
I'm calling for NORMAL CLOTHES - ie. just wear clothes & don't go 1/2 naked.
I just love how all of a sudden if we don't think women going 1/2 naked is Godly, we're automatically "puritanical" or prudish.
Again, same crap is done with anyone anti-gay... just say you're against homosexuality becuz it's sin and youre instantly a homophobe.
Maybe we should make negative terms for people who have trouble with conservative morality & slap them on people around here.
Sorry that label isn't going to fly and its absurd extremism for this drastic topic of partial nudity
Two things: Why is it that when I'm desensitized to nudity it's because I'm an unrepentant sinner or whatever was said, but a male gynecologist is desensitized to it it's a gift from God? That doesn't make sense. And it doesn't matter anyway, because the entire point is: If you are desensitized, you do not think lust upon seeing someone naked simply because they are naked.
On this silly age/wisdom debate: Didn't Jesus start preaching at the tender age of twelve? You know, when his parents accidentally left him behind and had to go back and get him and found him sitting and preaching to a bunch of adults who marveled at his wisdom? I can find a verse if no one knows what I'm talking about.
NORMAL = I am normal, I am NOT puritanical. I wear normal clothes, not puritanical clothes. You read into that one.So women who go topless are not normal. Millions of women in Africa and South America are not normal. The women who sunbath topless in Europe are not normal.
No, you read into my statement - I was defending myself that I was normal, not puritanical - not that I was normal becuz I wasn't topless.But it is acceptable for you to insult those women who go topless by saying that they are not normal.
sorry, I find this LAME. I cant' believe adults are even using such silly, non issues to make a supportive argument for female toplessness.But you think that it is completely acceptable for men to go topless.
still beating the dead horse?That's better than saying that those who go topless are not normal.
You've already done that. You say that they are not "normal."
paganism is common too - I find it drastic to worship false gods....Something that is common practice in much of the world is "drastic?"![]()
and liberals don't on their lack of moral modesty?Because fundamentalists want culture on their terms which they believe are "of God" but it's really of Puritanical culture...
This is literally an impossible debate. So far, no one on the "fundamentalist" side of things is willing to explicitly address the OP.
I'm calling it quits, personally.
ok I addressed that too, by saying it's a lame support for topless females all around.The issue is equality with men. You and others are taking Scripture out of context to show that the breasts should be covered. If this is the case, then cover up men as well. Then things are equal.
ok I addressed that too, by saying it's a lame support for topless females all around.
Last I checked, equality didn't mean identical standards or capabilities for both sexes - unless you want men to also go into women's bathrooms & vice versa.
We are equal as people, not in identical in anatomy and standards or abilities where that's concerned.
It's no more unequal than putting a woman in a heavy lifting job that men are more suited for anatomically.
But the biblical approach answers the OP directly. Men being able to be shirtless in public and women not being able to isn't an equality issue, it's a decency issue, the anatomy is different and predominantly viewed by males as an object of sexuality.
Yes I think it is, men's chests are not 'sex objects' where women get sexually aroused on - if you hadn't noticed, the amount of male porno mags is way out of balance to the amount of female porno mags made and sold.Right. Calling something lame is clearly a cutting and vibrant commentary.
It's not my interpretation of scripture, it's blatant and clear - it's not as if I've done some fancy CREATING of meaning - it was a generalized statement to all Christian women to dress modestly in moderation with propriety as is fitting as a Christian.You assume this is all obvious; and to you, it might be. We don't accept your interpretation of Scripture, however. The sooner you learn that there are smart people out there who have different understandings of Scripture, the better you'll be in debates such as this.
if they were equal, they wouldn't NEED SEPARATE BATHROOMS AT ALL, would they? why? Just equally put us all in together.It does mean identical standards and capabilities. There is a men's bathroom, there is a women's bathroom. This is equal.
Missed the point once again - this is silly to continueWe could be. There are women stronger than I; why should I be allowed to choose to fight on the frontlines, and not them?
well, MANY WOMEN ARE too dainty for construction, WHAT ABOUT THEM IF THAT'S WHAT THEY WANT TO DO?As a gender. But not on an individual basis. If you're too dainty for construction, that's fine. But if there's a woman that wants to do construction and is completely capable, she should be allowed to.
again, anyone can say "the crucifixion is your literal biblical approach, I consider it all allegorical"... off the hook.Your Biblical approach. Not THE Biblical approach. Again, fair reminder, you aren't God.
"What is the difference between a man going bare chested in public versus a woman going bare chested in public?" Is there a difference? First, let me state that there is a difference in the chemical make up of the male gender of the species and the female gender of the species.
God made us different. Males have a different physical build than females. Males have different sexual organs than females. Males have a different hormonal content than females have and thereby a different chemical balance. Males have different emotional makeup than do females. Males and females ARE different.
Now the question we need to ask is this, "Do any of these differences affect the ability of either of the genders to dress modestly?" And the answer is "Yes!" While both the chemicals testosterone and estrogen are in both genders, there is a different distribution in the gender.
In the male gender there is more testosterone than there is estrogen. In the female gender there is more estrogen than testosterone. One of the purposes of testosterone is to sexually motivate the genders. Since there is more of it in the male gender, males are more sexually motivated.
Additionally, according to medical professionals, there is also a direct relationship between the visual cortex in the brain of the male and the production of testosterone. While testosterone causes one to be sexually stimulated, visual sexual stimulus increases the production of testosterone especially in the male gender where a higher amount is already present.
This increases sexual stimulation and desire. Removing the visual stimulus will thus decrease the amount of testosterone produced and decrease the sexual desire. This is why we find specific issues of modesty addressed to women in the New Testament such as in 1 Timothy 2.
Now, in case you haven't noticed, there is a difference between the bare chest of a male and the bare chest of a female. Female breasts contain mammary glands whereas males do not. The Bible recognizes that the female breast can be a sexual stimulant. In Proverbs 5:19 we read instructions from a father to his son regarding the sexual relationship he should have with his wife. The Father instructs, "Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love."
The Bible here indicates that female breasts are at least in part for the sexual satisfaction of the male. And we also know that men do receive visual sexual stimulation from looking at the female breast. It is incumbent upon the Christian woman, therefore, to ensure that her breasts are properly covered so that this will not produce a stumbling block for Christian men.
Now in regard to the chest of a male, there can be sexual stimulation derived from that as well from the female, but it is not as strong and does not produce the kind of chemical response within the body of the female as it does in the male. Moreover the consistency of the response in the female is considerably different. Men respond consistently to bare breasted females.
However, women respond inconsistently to bare breasted men. But since there is a chance that a bare male breast would sexually stimulate a female, then the male should ensure that he cover his breast appropriately as well.
So there is a difference between a bare breasted male and a bare breasted female. However, so far as the Christian is concerned, if it provides occasion for anyone to stumble, the Christian male should not go bare breasted.
Now I would like to conclude with a few more words on modesty. Dressing modestly primarily reflects one's attitude toward one's self.
"Will I dress in such a way so as to bring glory to God, or will I dress in a way that will be pleasant to me?" This is the ultimate question that we must ask in regard to our dress. I would hope that each of us as Christians would be willing to sacrifice our own personal desires and comfort in our personal dress in order to bring glory to God.
There is always someone, however, who asks, "How will I know that I am dressed modestly?" I would like to suggest two avenues of thought for you. First, if you are a female, ask one of the older Christian ladies in the congregation. The Bible says that the elder are supposed to teach the younger and part of that instruction is how to be chaste ( Titus 2:5).
Second, there is the principle of no doubt. If you are unsure about your clothing, then don't wear it. Wear something that you KNOW would be suitable. Don't give yourself or anyone else reason to doubt that you are dressing in a modest manner and things will go well for you.
Yes I think it is, men's chests are not 'sex objects' where women get sexually aroused on - if you hadn't noticed, the amount of male porno mags is way out of balance to the amount of female porno mags made and sold.
Women are not visually stimulated the same way men are, so no, their chests are not something women find sexual that should be hidden under clothing becuz it causes them to lust.
For the few who do, then they should stay away from what tempts them.
It's not my interpretation of scripture, it's blatant and clear - it's not as if I've done some fancy CREATING of meaning - it was a generalized statement to all Christian women to dress modestly in moderation with propriety as is fitting as a Christian.
How is that now some 'private interpretation"?![]()
if they were equal, they wouldn't NEED SEPARATE BATHROOMS AT ALL, would they? why? Just equally put us all in together.
It's rather separatist isn't it? & why do men have stalls & women don't??? hmmmmmm
why don't men's bathrooms have those baby changer tables installed in them?
This is how silly the equality issue gets when you really want to get to identical standards
Missed the point once again - this is silly to continue
well, MANY WOMEN ARE too dainty for construction, WHAT ABOUT THEM IF THAT'S WHAT THEY WANT TO DO?
There's a great divide going on - there's a reason for it. But this thread isn't the place for that discussion. The verse IS obvious, but it won't be accepted as such because people want to live the way they decide, not the way God commands.
I said, BREAST ATTRACTION IS NOT LEARNED - unless you also have to LEARN not to be attracted/aroused by female genitalia.