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Tissue - do you have a crystal ball at 19 because when i was 19 i sure didnt know everything about everything and i still dont at the age i am now especially enough to tell other people why they think the way they do ...
I don't know everything about everything, but I do know a lot about some things. Most things are just simple logic.
For example, for a man who is 46, a Republican, and a Christian who tells me that I will be just like him when I get older, there is another man who is 46, a Democrat, and a Christian, who would argue the same thing. They cannot both be right, and neither of them can possibly give me a convincing reason why they would be right and not the other. After all, the human psyche is far more complex than many give credit for; society does a fine job of smashing us all into general replicas of what a person of our values is supposed to look like, but we still have a will, and a means with which to reject such replication.
It's somewhat likely that there really is no "self" behind all of this societal influence, and that the self constructed in response to society would merely be a mirror image of it, a "societal rebellion", which would still be a mark of society. Yet, that this option is open, and that the issue is not polarized (that is, I could accept any position in between the two poles of complete societal harmony and total societal rebellion), there exists a spectrum of how a human being will turn out.
And that's simply society. There are a slew of other factors. For example, the fact that my parents are divorced, or that I am a Philosophy major, or that I enjoy movies such as Titanic over Braveheart, or any other number of things that makes me an "individual", which could differ with elements of another person's psyche. Surely this would have some impact as well.
It's not that I am rebellious against age simply for the sake of rebellion. I do recognize, however, that we are all of us human. Wisdom can be found in the 4-year-old (I fondly remember one who told me "Skip the icing, go for the cake"), or a 104-year-old. Experience is valuable, but we are all isolated from one another, and it can be all too easy to overestimate the value or implications of one's experience.