Okay, so I'm wondering how to get a guy to notice you. I would really like some pointers from the guys on this. See, there's this guy and I want to get to know him and I want him to notice me. Now, the thing is that he is in Iraq right now, but we were friends when he and I were RAs at the dorm we lived in. I haven't seen him since he graduated and was comissioned into the Army. I also hadn't heard from him until he emailed about a week ago. I had been thinking about him for awhile and wondering what he was up to and decided to start praying for him.
As an RA with him I was so clueless! I had sort of been dating this other guy, but dumped him after school started that year (fall 02). My friend helped me get to know this guy more by asking him to hang out with us, inviting him to come along when we went to eat, etc. So, I sort of got to know him, but not as well as I wish I had. I do remember that he is a strong Christian and led bible studies for his residents. I also remember that he was a great story teller, very kind, very manly (lol), handsome, and just an overall good guy to be around. However, I was soooo shy around him! It was hard for me to initiate conversations with him. I even remember one night where we both worked in the office and it was just us two. I brought some studying to do and didn't think it would really bother me with him being there. Well, it turns out that it did bother me because I was pretty nervous around him, yet also felt relaxed, if that makes sense!
Anyway, I could go on and on. The point is that I want to get to know this guy because he is definitely worth getting to know. So, how can I do that with him being in Iraq and me being somewhat shy and him being very popular with the ladies? I'm sure he's got TONS of girls writing to him. I've been praying some that God will let me get to know him if it's His will, but I think that's kind of selfish seeing as how he is at war and all! I'm sending him a care package with some fun stuff and snacks I think he'll like. But the care package is for him to share. Even if I never get to know him that well or date him or whatever, I just think he's an awesome guy and it's great to see someone who is at war and yet still serving God fully by being a witness to his guys and leading bible studies and all.
I hope this all makes sense! Thoughts?? Thanks!
As an RA with him I was so clueless! I had sort of been dating this other guy, but dumped him after school started that year (fall 02). My friend helped me get to know this guy more by asking him to hang out with us, inviting him to come along when we went to eat, etc. So, I sort of got to know him, but not as well as I wish I had. I do remember that he is a strong Christian and led bible studies for his residents. I also remember that he was a great story teller, very kind, very manly (lol), handsome, and just an overall good guy to be around. However, I was soooo shy around him! It was hard for me to initiate conversations with him. I even remember one night where we both worked in the office and it was just us two. I brought some studying to do and didn't think it would really bother me with him being there. Well, it turns out that it did bother me because I was pretty nervous around him, yet also felt relaxed, if that makes sense!
Anyway, I could go on and on. The point is that I want to get to know this guy because he is definitely worth getting to know. So, how can I do that with him being in Iraq and me being somewhat shy and him being very popular with the ladies? I'm sure he's got TONS of girls writing to him. I've been praying some that God will let me get to know him if it's His will, but I think that's kind of selfish seeing as how he is at war and all! I'm sending him a care package with some fun stuff and snacks I think he'll like. But the care package is for him to share. Even if I never get to know him that well or date him or whatever, I just think he's an awesome guy and it's great to see someone who is at war and yet still serving God fully by being a witness to his guys and leading bible studies and all.
I hope this all makes sense! Thoughts?? Thanks!