I have enjoyed reading your reply. I still don't understand the reluctance to say choice. If you take away man's free will (choice) then I understand why many would argue it isn't their fault but God caused me to do it. Are you old enough to remember Flip Wilson? The devil made me do it, was his signature line.
Yes, I remember Flip Wilson. Haha, there are some people in life we tend to compare others to, like they are the standard. Flip was one of those. Nobody else quite like him.
I'm not sure why you think I (or maybe you think Calvinism?) is reluctant to say choice. We do not take away man's choice. We do believe in real, responsible choice, that has real, even eternal, results. However, Free Will, many of us deny --others just use it to mean that we do choose --not that our choices are independent of causation.
We (mankind and our world) were a very good creation. We apparently were meant to commune with God in a perfect place forever. He knew sin would come in before He created...sure....but His purpose (man communing with Him in a perfect place forever) is still the goal.
Very good creation, yes, even without error, but no, not complete. Adam and Eve were, for lack of a better term, spiritual simpletons. They were innocent, but so are dolphins. Their intelligence probably not much better than ours, I speculate, still below that of the angels. Although they alone were made in the image of God, they still were not, as created, what God had in mind for the finished product, the Bride of Christ. The elect are not only fallen, but even after regeneration are never complete until we see him as he is.
I choose faith. Wouldn't know faith without the word of God, but the acceptance is mine and yours. Being lost is caused by rejecting that same Word. My choice, your choice.
Without here going too much into what salvific faith actually is, vs common faith that even unbelievers can have, I use the Biblical term, "receive", rather than "accept". We are receptacles of faith, given to us by God. This does not negate the fact that we choose it, and willfully so, but it does not put the power in our silly hands --it is the work of God.
According to John 3:18 They are already condemned --notice the play of tenses --"because they have not believed". That is to say, they were not in a neutral state at any time. The lost are not innocent until such a time as they are given opportunity to choose between acceptance and rejection of the Gospel, as we would consider such things. (Truth is, that is exactly what we do from Day One, being at enmity with God, and without excuse, the huge difference between us guilty ones and the purity and power and mercy/intimacy of God was readily available to our hearts, but we didn't like the pain of that, I think. Disclaimer: all between these parenthesis is my take on the matter --not Reformed/Calvinistic doctrine.)
Now, this believing (salvific faith) is not shown to be an act of the will here in John 3 --we merely assume it to be so, because we well know our will is active in choosing, which indeed we do choose, in believing. Yet God remains the cause.
I thank God, that whether or not you, or anybody else, understands or agrees with me on what I say, or even understands a better explanation, the work of God remains capable of accomplishing what he has planned. That capability (shown in many passages of Scripture) is why the Reformed say that belief (i.e. the act of the will to believe) is the result, and not the cause, of salvation. One cannot be saved without regeneration, and regeneration is the result of the "installing" of the Spirit of God in the heart of the individual (it may even be possible to show that regeneration IS the Spirit of God in the heart).
Some people can even tell you there came a time in their life when they realized they already believed, without any particular turning point or choice on their part.
It feels like a cop out to say God made me do it. "If God hadn't talked to us, none of this would have happened" God has done nothing but good for us. Man is stupid to reject Him. It's our fault.
All true, it does feel like a cop-out. (That's why I try not to put it that way). I like to point out a difference between the act of will (see John 3 again) of the believer and the unbeliever. The unbeliever is already at enmity with God, (and he freely chooses to behave according to the nature to which he is enslaved). The believer is born again by the Spirit of God into a new nature, (yet the old man remains, and we must constantly, by act of will, be putting it to death.) The unbeliever, being apart from God, is alone in his choices, whether they be caused or not. The believer is never alone in his choices, but God works in him, (even by use of his disobedience). In both cases, the choices are real, but only in the one is God to be credited. "Without me, you can do nothing."