This is simply not true. People are without excuse about God's existence and His good ways. Otherwise God could not judge any of His creation. It would be like holding a Judgment for predatory animals like wolves or T-Rex's. Can you imagine it? God says to the T-Rex,
"Bad T-Rex! You ate those people! Depart from me into the Lake of Fire!"
By your belief in Calvinism, it is saying a similar thing. You believe men are depraved and they are unable to make a choice to choose God. So they are off the hook. Any judgment would be a joke or a farce. If there was no way for them to come to God in any way, then they cannot be held accountable anymore than a T-Rex or a wolf.
God reveals His standard of moral law not only within His Word but within the very nature of His creation itself (man).
"For when the Gentiles, which have not the law, do by nature the things contained in the law, these, having not the law, are a law unto themselves." (Romans 2:14).
What law is it talking about here?
The moral law like do not murder, do not steal, do not covet, etc. (i.e. the law of loving your neighbor - Romans 13:8-10). For the Gentiles could not obey any ceremonial law like the Sabbath, or circumcision by any instinct or natural way telling them to do that. This moral law (Which was only reinforced - not revealed) became popularized with the giving of the tablets of stone from Mt. Sinai and the writing of the Torah by Moses.
You are not reading all of Romans 1 right then. It says God reveals from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men who HOLD THE TRUTH IN UNRIGHTEOUSNESS.
18 "For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who hold the truth in unrighteousness;
19 Because that which may be known of God is manifest in them; for God hath shewed
it unto them." (Romans 1:18-19).
Yet, in the world of Calvinism they are not holding any truth in unrighteousness. Yet, this is what the above passage says (Which flies in the face of many verses that refutes Calvinism). One has to do clever gymnastic back flips or twists to undo passages like these that are very clear and plain to see when read without any Calvinistic bias.
Jesus did not mean John 15:3 (i.e. you are clean by the word which I spoken unto you) to be a one time seal a deal forever kind of thing. This is not saying that God just regenerated them whereby they will always do good. Nor is it teaching a version of OSAS (Once Saved Always Saved) that says you can break God's moral laws (like murder, hate, sexual immorality, steal, etc.) and still be in His good graces. Yes, I am aware of POTS (Perseverance of the Saints) and how it is different. Besides the "Regeneration" (that ignores man's free will choice) part, there is a lite version of OSAS that is almost identical to it (and it is false). It says you have to live holy for OSAS to be true.
Anyways, John 15:3 is not teaching any kind of regeneration here. Jesus is saying you are clean by obeying God's words. This is not a new teaching in Scripture.
25 "...even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
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That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word,
27 That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish." (Ephesians 5:25-27).
This is the Word by which they are made clean.
"Wherewithal shall a young man cleanse his way? by taking heed
thereto according to thy word." (Psalms 119:9).
No doubt, you believe this is talking to the regenerated or enlightened man. But let's look at Scripture.
"For the heart of this people is waxed gross, and their ears are dull of hearing, and their eyes have they closed;
lest they should see with
their eyes, and hear with
their ears, and understand with
their heart,
and should
be converted, and I should heal them." (Acts 28:27).
Here we see in this verse above that those people whose heart has waxed gross and whose ears are dull of hearing and whose eyes are closed, have a choice. LEST. LEST. LEST (UNLESS) they should see with their eyes and THEN be converted. It says THEY should see. It does not say that God makes them to see.
Also, Jesus desires Jerusalem to be saved. At the very least He desired to gather them as chicks underneath His wing as a hen. So whatever you believe that to mean, Jerusalem was not doing what Jesus (God) desired of them. They were going against God's will.
"O Jerusalem, Jerusalem, the city that kills the prophets and stones God’s messengers! How often I have wanted to gather your children together as a hen protects her chicks beneath her wings, but you wouldn’t let me." (Matthew 23:37) (NLT).
This should not be possible in the Calvinistic universe. We see Jesus desiring something of Jerusalem by the analogy of the hen and the chicks, but Jerusalem would not let them allow Jesus to do it. This is contrary to God's Soverign will under the Calvinistic world. This verse should not be in your Bible!
I do not know of any atheist who are obeying God's moral laws today. Many of them are sexually immoral, liars, swear profanities, lust after the opposite sex outside of marriage (i.e. inappropriate content, or looking at the opposite sex at least in lust when they go out into public), etc.
Here is an animated video that you should check out.
Anyways, I gotta run. I will try and get to the rest of what you said at a later time.
May God bless you;
And may you please be well.
With loving kindness to you in Christ,
Sincerely,
~ Jason.
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