The Bible tells us that he was a 'just man.' That means he was a good man, honest, fair, and God-loving. If he wasn't married to Mary... what family that is his did he take to Egypt. Joseph obeyed the angel's message and took his family to Egypt to escape from Herod's soldiers. After many years, the family finally returned to their home village of Nazareth. Sounds like domestic marriaged life. Later Yeshua was missing for three days and finally Joseph and Mary found Him in the Temple teaching the scribes and elders. So obviously, 12 years later, they are still acting like husband and wife chasing after their children. After this, Yeshua returned home with Mary and Joseph and 'was subject to them'. While means that Yeshua recognised their parental authority over him and their marriage. Yeshua was not raised in an unconsumated marriage situation, his earthly mother and father were married in every sense of the word. Otherwise, Yeshua would be known as a bastard.
The difference between betrothal and marriage is not well understood in modern times. A betrothal was similar to an modern engagement, in that it was a period of preparation for married life, but unlike an engagement, betrothals were considered legally binding and therefore not easily broken. Also, betrothals took place in a formal ceremony, not in an informal private moment as do engagements today. Only after a marriage ceremony would the couple begin living together as man and wife, and be considered married.
The difference between betrothal and marriage is not well understood in modern times. A betrothal was similar to an modern engagement, in that it was a period of preparation for married life, but unlike an engagement, betrothals were considered legally binding and therefore not easily broken. Also, betrothals took place in a formal ceremony, not in an informal private moment as do engagements today. Only after a marriage ceremony would the couple begin living together as man and wife, and be considered married.
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