To be clear I am talking about low value men who can still attract partners, but that these partners tend to be low value too. That it is hard for many to develop feelings (romantic or sexual) for low value partners even if the person is low value themselves.
Easier said than done. Probably the biggest help for an ugly man.. but out of reach for most. Especially if the incel is sub-par in intelligence. Smart enough to get out in the world but probably does not have the brightest socioeconomic prospects.
What is female-funny? Although this does remind me of that scene from Roger Rabbit.. lol.
I agree women like brains and I would even argue that women care less about looks compared to men. Given human neoteny it seems clear that there was and probably is more sexual pressure for women to be physically attractive compared to men.
There are plenty of ugly men who can get average or even above average women through compensation.. but with incels I assume we are speaking about the bottom 10% or even 5% of men. Being low IQ and ugly on top of it is going to take a heavy toll on a man's potential prospects. Even they can find women.. but they are presented with the problem I initially stated.
How do you know? Besides, many better looking men also possess these same traits. Being kind and having a sense of humor and a hard worker (in the incel case probably often at a dead end minimum wage job) are not really novel.
I will say that I do not buy into the salacious view of incels I see being described in many feminist and conservative corners. They are probably just cheery picking the worst of the community and refuse to have a more complex and human look at them. They just want one dimensional misogynistic monsters. When in reality I'd wager most incels act nothing like they do online in real life (even the hateful ones). Humans are complicated creatures with contradicting desires. The same people who can output incredible hate can also output incredible love. Most incels probably behave normal in reality, and are hard to pick out.
I'll say the same for the extremely hateful and disgusting feminists I run into online. I'd bet many of them are actually nice to men in real life and keep a lot of their more hateful thoughts in the back burner. Like incels they are probably often full of crap and contradictory in their actual actions in a good way.