No, I see the psychological harm it can cause. Especially regarding couples who have no attraction for one another. Perhaps in a Christian context it is better to be single, but as I have stated above these sins are probably unavoidable regardless. Some people will have to make tough decisions. Either sleep in a cold bed alone, or sleep in a warm bed with someone they are not attracted too but at the very least they may be able to fulfill some of their biological urges in a more rudimentary sense.
Human beings are not controlled by nature. Human beings like what we want to like, and we can change what we want to like any time we really want to change. There is a multi-billion dollar advertising industry based on that characteristic.
One pastor said a while ago, "Any husband can make his wife his standard of beauty. If his wife is thin, he can make 'thin' his standard of beauty. If his wife is thick, he can make "thick" his standard of beauty. If his wife used to be thin, he can make 'used to be thin' his standard of beauty. But when he makes his wife his standard of beauty, then all other women become substandard."
My wife is fat and old, but she is more kind to me than I can imagine any other woman being, she's good company, she makes few demands of me, and she knows the signs of stroke. I'd be a fool to lust after younger women.
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