I believe that God could override their freewill and force them to obey. But this type of forced obedience is not what He wants. It is not they type of love He wants. Rather than forcing them to obey, or allowing them to continue in misery, He chooses to destroy them completely. It is not unjust. It is not even unloving given that the alternative would be for them to live in misery, since that is the certain outcome of choosing to reject God's love and not love Him.
* More amazing still, Adam and Eve started off in a perfect paradise. The devil could lie to them, but there is no evidence he could harm them. They chose to listen to the serpent and disobey God.
* Finally, and perhaps most importantly, the devil started off as a good angel living in a perfect Heaven in the bright light of God’s truth and love. Without any source of evil in his world, the devil chose to rebel. He took many of the angels with him.
What this says is that God failed in the way He created man, who can reach a point of becoming totally hardened beyond even the ability of God's Omnipotence & Love being capable of reaching such a man. For One as Wise as God, that seems unlikely.
What is unloving is the part where He raises these allegedly 100% hardened humans back to life, not for an opportunity for salvation, but to be tormented.
What this says is that God failed
Compare the biblical account of King David. After all that God had shown him & done for him, he committed two horribly wicked crimes that were each worthy of him being stoned to death under the law. He committed premeditated adultery and murder. Will David be sent by God to endless annihilation? Or did the Lord have mercy on him?
The worm is - their - as in a personal worm that does not die.
Bodies die, but that does not mean even in the first death that the soul decayed any or died.
“Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God.”
It does not have to mean God failed in the way He created man, and I certainly don't think it means God failed. It means that His goal of creating people in such a way that they can truly love with agape-love (by which I mean they type of love God has) is so important that God was willing to accept the consequence that this would also mean that people could choose to reject him and become hardened to the point where they could not be saved without destroying their free will.
I believe that in order for people to love the way God wants them to, they must have free will.
We all believe that God is willing and in fact eager to offer forgiveness and grace to terrible famous sinners like David and terrible less-known sinners like ourselves. David repented. He trusted God even after his terrible sin.
Yes, he did. So why put a time limit for repentance on others like Adam & Eve or Satan who have also committed terrible sins?
A good apologetic against Universalism.
But I am wondering why you list "Annihilationism" as the other option; another choice that has no biblical support.
The argument of the OP boils down to making God's omnipotence impotent, as if the Almighty has no more He can do for hardened sinners to bring about their salvation. His hands are tied. He who created billions of stars is helpless to do anything for the salvation of these lost souls.
Scripture nowhere says anyone is beyond saving, not even Satan. Quite the contrary.
As Jesus said, With man this is impossible, but with God all is possible.
Is anything too difficult for Him Who created a universe that spans billions of light years in its length?
Have people who have seen a few miracles of God and still rejected Him gone too far? Scripture speaks of Satanic forces performing amazing things as well. God hardened Pharoah's heart, if no one else. Jesus' disciple, doubting Thomas, had been with Him for years seeing His wondrous works & words of His resurrection, yet when told by other disciples the Lord is risen he refused to believe. Did his unbelief make him hardened beyond repair? No. Did Peter's denying the Lord 3 times after all Peter had been privileged to? No. How many people get to experience what Saul of Tarsus did, being made blind & healed & hearing Christ's voice from heaven? Or being made as an animal for 7 years as the King in Daniel, to humble him. Such things are just a drop in the ocean compared to what God omnipotent, who created the universe, is capable of doing to bring about the humbling of a person.
What is unloving is the part where He raises these allegedly 100% hardened humans back to life, not for an opportunity for salvation, but to be tormented.
However, I believe that this action is consistent with God being a God of love, which He certainly is. God promised throughout the Bible that He would bring justice and payback those who hurt His people. His people have often suffered immensely, strengthened by God's promises. So it is loving to His people to raise the unrighteous, judge them before all, and treat them with justice.
If God's people somehow get satisfaction from seeing other beings pointlessly tormented before being annihilated, i would suggest that it is God's people who should be the ones being tormented, since they are displaying a Jonathan Edwards' type of satisfaction with the sufferings of others.