Aw... that's the Devil lying to you.
It doesn't have to be that complicated. Why don't you try to make just one positive change at a time.
If I were to send you a bag of a coffee substitute we sell, would you give it a try for a month? (I don't know what you know, but coffee--and especially caffine--has numerous bad side effects.) We sell a ton of this coffee substitute--it's called "Dandy Blend." It's a blend of dandelion, chicory, and other herbs. We don't drink coffee, but when we had the store our customers said this one tasted the most like coffee. I'd be more than happy to send you a bag. Please give it some thought.
I have to run.
God Bless,