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The Status of Secular Music Forum

What should the status be of the Secular Music Forum?

  • It should remain as it is, Christians only.

  • The status should change and allow Christians and non-Christians to post.

  • Undecided


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brettnolan

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Larry said:
Except for a few trolls, (which are not limited to non-Christians), how exactly would non-Christians be a detriment to the discussions of secular music? I'd really like to hear this.

The same way they would be a detriment to a forum about sex, for instance. What can they offer that can't already be found here? There is obviously a huge spectrum of musical tastes represented here.

Larry said:
BTW, in the suggestions forum Erwin said he would not make 2 separate secular music forums. That's why ps139 started this thread.

Didn't know this, thanks.
 
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brettnolan said:
The same way they would be a detriment to a forum about sex, for instance. What can they offer that can't already be found here? There is obviously a huge spectrum of musical tastes represented here.

Maybe it's just me, but I don't equate the discussion of secular music with the discussion of sex. What moral standards or spiritual principles are being discussed, for example, in the "Battle of the Bands" thread, or the "U2 Fan" thread, or just about any other thread here? None.

How would statements like "I love that guitar intro...", or "My favorite 80's hit is...", or just about anything along those lines, (which make up the bulk of the posts in this secular music forum), have any difference in meaning if they were coming from a non-Christian?
 
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PreacherFergy said:
can't ya'll read, it's PreacherFergy, not Fergie


My fault entirly, sorry. My Grandfather spells the familiar form of his name Fergie so its sort of stuck in my head. Sorry about that.

Ghost
 
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TerraSin said:
I was going by what was posted in the past few threads. Ya'll wanna keep it "specifically for Xians" when it should be for everyone.
Why should it be for everyone...because you believe so? This is completely a preference issue, I can't see how there could be a true right or wrong.

TerraSin said:
I guess then that only people who have memorized the Bible can come to church.
This argument is fallacious on so many grounds that it isn't even worth evaluating. However, I believe you are referring to christians who enjoy fellowship with one another. I believe that Charles Spurgeon only allowed christians to attend his church services (and it should be noted that God used him for a great revival in England). Having separate times for evangelism and discipleship is not bad. If not, the message will either be meat to the infants or milk to the mature.

I'm sorry Terrasin if the churches you have encountered have all resulted in negative experiences. However, using your brain rather than what is taught in scripture can be dangerous. Logic would say that Jesus is dead. The Holy Spirit tells me that He is very much alive!

TerraSin said:
And blackwasp, I was under the impression you were taking sides for a while with Fergy. Please let me know if I took that the wrong way.
I think Brettnolan summed up my stance well on that issue -- our responsibility as christians to judge other "christians". My main argument was against U2 being a christian band.
 
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This will be my last post on the subject. Today is the final day to vote on this.

As I mentioned in my first post in this thread, it is my humble opinion and honest belief that sharing interests in different secular music can be a powerful tool to establish commonground, build trust and raport, and develope genuine relationships with non-Christians - difficult to attain in the other forums. For me, discussion of music is on the same par with discussion of food. Neither is intrusive or offensive to another's beliefs or world views. The discussions of secular music have a greater tendency to unite, not divide, Christians and non-Christians.

Since Erwin said he would not make two separate secular music forums, and since Christians and non-Christians alike enjoy a lot of the same music, I see no reason for Chiistians to be hoarding the discussions of secular music for Christians only. That seems a bit selfish.

There are a plethora of forums here for Christians to enjoy the fellowship of other Christians, exclusively. There are also plenty of opportunities for us to interact and be witnesses to the non-Christians in the open forums.
 
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Larry said:
Some questions -

How many debates do you see occuring in this secular music forum? Can you point out where spiritual matters, edification and instruction are being discussed in this secular music forum? I must have missed all that.

OUCH! (rubbing the lump I took from Larry's opinion hammer)

Frankly, Larry, most of the posts I've been making in this forum are specifically about the beliefs that secular music is sinful for a christian. That falls under spiritual matters, and edification, and instruction. If you'd taken the time to look at my post history, you would have seen that for yourself.
 
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I knew I'd get drawn in to one more post.

Grover, I never said there were not any discussions of spiritual matters. I even pointed out a thread where the discussion was about people like you who do not 'approve' of secular music. Those discussions, however, are few and far between. They are the exception to the rule. By and large, most of the threads and posts in this secular music forum do not speak to those matters at all. And, just because you personally have spoken about the moral implications of secular music, does not change the vast and overwhelming nature of what is being discussed in this forum. Look for yourself. Except for those scant few threads you contributed in, do you see any other threads discussing the moral implications of secular music?

BTW, I was refering to what is going on in this forum, not what you personally posted here. That lump on your head is self-inflicted.
 
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Larry said:
This will be my last post on the subject.

Yay!







Just kidding!


I don't remember reading this before, but this is a good point. Doesn't change my mind, but a good point nonetheless.
 
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Don't forget that redjosh changed his vote to Christians-only, and I am still seeing both sides - I guess that's a firm "undecided". Here's my tally in light of that:

Christians only: 20
Move it: 24
Undecided: 5

That's pretty close IMHO.
 
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ps139 said:
Larry the site is not a democracy. Having option B come out on top is no guarantee of it happening. Is that too hard to understand?

I realize that you were are against option B. I would also venture to say that if option A came out ahead, you would be singing a different tune.

That's what I understand.
 
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Larry said:
I realize that were are against option B. I would also venture to say that if option A came out ahead, you would be singing a different tune.

That's what I understand.
Larry the best way to keep it as it is would be for me to not have started the poll in the first place. Complain to Erwin if you want, I'm sick of your whining. We do not even know whats going to happen, already you are attacking my honesty. I do not appreciate it, and its uncalled for.
 
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Sign Of The Fish said:
I voted undecided, and really wished that I would have thought about it more, cos I would have voted to keep it all Christian.
I told Erwin that you, redjosh, and Arwen undomiel changed their votes.
 
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