Thank-you - Most do not seem to want to address the issue of the ontological difference in the soul of a person between worship and veneration...
The actual ontology of the Saints is that they to a very great degree possess Christ IN them...
And that of the Theotokos is that She more than any has Christ IN Her...
And of the Christ is that He it is Who is in the Saints and in the Theotokos...
So that when we reverence an Icon, we are worshiping Christ...
Because Christ is so much of the person represented in the Icon...
We kneel before the icon - Today's Feast is that of St. Anthony whose iconic depiction we reverence - and we cross ourselves and bow before him and kiss him, and we may even prostrate ourselves before him at his icon, and all these actions are actions of reverence and worship... And yet, they are not the worship of St. Anthony, but of Christ IN him, and he in Christ... It is that union, that Marriage of God and man, that IS St. Anthony now, for he and Christ are ONE...
This is why Saints are miracle workers in various degrees, for there are varying degrees of union with Christ, as one repents from self more and more, and Christ's will in such a person becomes more and more as the self-will of the person becomes less and less. Just as John the Baptist described himself in relation to Christ...
And we conduct ourselves no differently when we stand before an icon of, and are thereby in the presence of Christ, or the Theotokos, or a venerable Saint... And inwardly as well, our manner of supplication is the same before all three...
So that perhaps, I hope, the proper framing of the matter can avoid the red herring of worship vs veneration in the soul of the faithful person in the presence of icons... And we know that Christ is an Ikon of the Father, and is OUR Father, and that we are to icon Christ in our lives by following Him in the Faith He gave to us...
And that He did NOT give us a Bible and a printing press, but instead He gave us the Faith of our Fathers, Living Faith... The Bible was written years AFTER His Death on the Cross... By those who were KEEPING His Commandments...
Arsenios