Be nice and I'll buy you a dictionary for Christmas.
In normal usage, to impose implies the use of force. That's why we don't normally use it in the context of democratic elections.
OB
I am being nice, as I already said.
In hopes of nicely assisting you: There's this cool thing called the internet with all kinds of dictionaries at the touch of a button. See here with citations and everything:
impose
(ɪmˈpəʊz)
vb
1. (
tr) to establish as something to be obeyed or complied with; enforce: to impose a tax on the people.
2. to force (oneself, one's presence, etc) on another or others; obtrude
3. (
intr) to take advantage, as of a person or quality: to impose on someone's kindness.
4. (Printing, Lithography & Bookbinding) (
tr)
printing to arrange (pages) so that after printing and folding the pages will be in the correct order
5. (
tr) to pass off deceptively; foist: to impose a hoax on someone.
6. (Ecclesiastical Terms) (
tr) (of a bishop or priest) to lay (the hands) on the head of a candidate for certain sacraments
[C15: from Old French
imposer, from Latin
impōnere to place upon, from
pōnere to place, set]
imˈposable adj
imˈposer n
Collins English Dictionary – Complete and Unabridged, 12th Edition 2014 © HarperCollins Publishers 1991, 1994, 1998, 2000, 2003, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2011, 2014
im•pose
(ɪmˈpoʊz)
v. -posed, -pos•ing. v.t.
1. to apply or establish by or as if by authority: to impose taxes.
2. to thrust intrusively upon others: to impose oneself uninvited.
3. to pass or palm off fraudulently or deceptively.
4. to lay (type pages, plates, etc.) in proper order on a slab of stone or metal and secure in a chase for printing.
5. to inflict, as a penalty.
v.i.
6. to obtrude oneself or one's needs upon others: Are you sure my request doesn't impose?
[1475–85; < Middle French
imposer < Latin
impōnere to put in or upon, impose =
im- im-1 +
pōnere to put, place]
im•pos′a•ble, adj.
im•pos′er, n.
Random House Kernerman Webster's College Dictionary, © 2010 K Dictionaries Ltd. Copyright 2005, 1997, 1991 by Random House, Inc. All rights reserved.
Seems pretty clear you like to be the authority for what is normal. Also seems pretty clear that you like to impose only the definition (and culture) you want to be normal. But there's a bit more range to what the word means and how it can be used. And there's a bit more thinking out here that many see as normal, thus determining your views to be abnormal.
The problem is not tough to understand. It's just tough for we mortals to resolve.