That is, the "secular" sphere has embraced consent as the ultimate moral criterion, and perhaps even the sole moral criterion, whereas religions tend to be much more cognizant of nature.
I think it comes down to that theists want their rules into law and forced on others regardless if those others belong to that religion or not.
Whereas in the secular sphere, people want people in society to have autonomy and not be forced by government on how to behave in aspects of their private lives.
It doesn't mean that a person who supports a secular society thinks it is moral to divorce or moral to have a same sex marriage. It just means this person doesn't think it should be a punishable crime.
A person who supports a country that allows pro-choice doesn't mean that this person thinks it isn't wrong to have an abortion.
There are other ways to support your "morals" than to enforce them into law.
You can put out adverts, you can publish leaflets, you can have debates and talk to people, try to convince them not to have a same sex marriage or not to end their terminal and painful life or not to divorce or not to take contraceptives.
But putting these things into law, forcing your religious beliefs onto others is creating an unnecessary nanny state, a BIG expensive and corrupt government.
Government is there to support a safe, stable and thriving society. Not to enforce a moral one.
If you want there to be an authority on morality, then leave that up to mums and dads, or religious organisation leaders or ... But don't hand that to politicians.