leytonstones
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Thanks angelwind, I needed that. Not been a very good week.Oh dear...(((hugs)))
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Thanks angelwind, I needed that. Not been a very good week.Oh dear...(((hugs)))
ThisI have been focusing on this lately...nomatter what happens...or doesn't happen, I have Christ with me and can enjoy Him...right now...have been doing that lately too...He gave me a lot more peace this week.![]()
You always sound cheerful to me Flaglady, nomatter what is happening...![]()
Try to be, AW - but it appearances can be deceptive sometimes, thar knows!!!![]()
Yes, I think this boat is pretty crowded.Guess we're all pretty much in the same boat - row away!!
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Hang in there AW we all feel like that at times.He calls us to just be "quiet" at times and give in to all the rat race around us and sit and pray and listen.
Bless you,
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I had a funny day today. My knee was suddenly so painful, probably because I've been overdoing it and caused fluid in the joint - ouch!!!
So I nearly didn't go to church but I was working last weekend and will be working the next two (God willing) so I really didn't want to miss this week, nor the opportunity to flag one time. I managed to do flags and it was really good and I noticed my little friend 'Cheryl' was there behind me flagging away as well.
Well, the band did "Draw Me Close To You" some lines of which go "You're all I want, You're all I've ever needed...". The leader asked us to sing the song a second time and this time to imagine that it was God saying it us rather than the other way round. It had a tremendously quietening effect upon the church and many were in tears.
Later I was chatting when Cheryl came and we sat together. I saw she was rather subdued and asked her what was wrong. After a pause, she suddenly confessed that she was trying to accept that God was "all she wanted" that He was her husband and should be sufficient but that she really wanted a husband and children and felt a failure because she was betraying God by that attitude.
I assured her that she was so wrong, that God is her Father, not her husband and though we will be Brides of Christ in the Spiritual, He has created us with these biological needs and drives here on earth and her wanting to fulfill them is not a betrayal of God but a fulfullment of His design. I also told her (as a childless woman myself) that I couldn't reassure her that there would be children in her future (she is now 34) but that God sees all and knows all and will, most certainly, be with her always. Then I prayed for her.
Dear sisters - was my reassurance okay? What else could I have said?
Funny thing is, I really feel that was the reason God had me go to church today!
Hi Flaglady,Later I was chatting when Cheryl came and we sat together. I saw she was rather subdued and asked her what was wrong. After a pause, she suddenly confessed that she was trying to accept that God was "all she wanted" that He was her husband and should be sufficient but that she really wanted a husband and children and felt a failure because she was betraying God by that attitude.
I assured her that she was so wrong, that God is her Father, not her husband and though we will be Brides of Christ in the Spiritual, He has created us with these biological needs and drives here on earth and her wanting to fulfill them is not a betrayal of God but a fulfullment of His design. I also told her (as a childless woman myself) that I couldn't reassure her that there would be children in her future (she is now 34) but that God sees all and knows all and will, most certainly, be with her always. Then I prayed for her.
Dear sisters - was my reassurance okay? What else could I have said?
Funny thing is, I really feel that was the reason God had me go to church today!
I also feel lonely sometimes and sometimes it's difficult to get out into the garden where it helps. But stuck indoors because it's raining (like now) is a very lonely business. There are only so many people you can ring and they all seem to have such busy lives - ho hum - guess that's life.
Dear Michaelmasdaisy, Yes, there's not enough people to ring. I agree. I hope it stops raining where you are so you can get out to your garden. I know so many find contentment there. God bless you.
I'm having pains in my arm and left cheek or jaw and was giving Nitro. I'm 51, and I have to face it, with my body, my diabetes, I'm a walking time bomb.
I rarely see people or very many so it will be nice to get out tomorrow to see the doctor about it. I hope he doesn't order any tests.
I don't like going to the doctor's. I dread it really, but it's good to get out. Makes me feel like I've accomplished something.
This is nice, a lonely club. I'm basically at home and love the Internet almost to a fault!
I was always a people person and now due to circumstances beyond my control I have to stay home. God blessed me with all of the friends that I have made on the internet.
This seems like a very nice forum to be on and I look forward to being a lot less lonely now that I have found it!![]()
Indeed...God always gives us what we need...not necessarily what we wantOh, I am so glad you stopped by, it made me feel very vulnerable to share my lonliness...then I found out I wasn't "alone"...internet friends are a gift from the Lord in my mind.![]()
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Indeed...God always gives us what we need...not necessarily what we want![]()