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I chose United Methodist because of the theological focus on grace and I agreed more closely with their social principles. The Methodist movement actually came out of the Anglican Church as John and Charles Wesley were Anglican priests all of their lives and it was never originally intended to become a separate denomination. One issue ended up being more political than anything else because after the American Revolution, the former English Colonies did not want to be under anything resembling English rule, so Methodists separated from the Anglican church, but not because of doctrinal issues. I've attended bible studies at Lutheran churches. I also currently attend Sunday evening services when I can at a local independent Baptist church, and also have SDA friends whose church I visit with them for fellowship from time to time.
Even though we have disagreements on various theological points, the focus is still Jesus Christ, and the same would be true for Catholics or Orthodox. In fact, one of the people in my former Sunday School class is Greek Orthodox and she still attended services there from time to time. (Her husband is United Methodist). There were also a number of people who grew up Catholic.
There really isn't as much denominational division as people think. When we did an informal survey of why people were there at the Methodist church instead of some other denomination, the largest reason by far was that they visited the church at some point and liked the people in it. It seems most people in general, regardless of denomination, are not very familiar with the differences between all of these denominations and just go to the church they like or because they grew up in it.
So yes, why not both/and? Why can't they all be healthy in some way as they serve the different needs of all the unique individuals that God created?
I belong to the ELCA though because I feel like God personally called me to it, not merely because I just picked a church. I prayed to God to show me a church that would preach grace, and one Sunday I was frustrated at the Episcopal cathedral I could barely tolerate (they are extremely conservative and calvinistic/moralistic down here), and I heard "A Mighty Fortress is Our God" and I thought "Hmm... why have I never though of that before. I guess maybe this might be a sign from God".
There were also alot of freaky synchronicities, like my pastor being Greek and German American and having an Orthodox father, so he could relate to me, or the place being named Reformation (it was just the one nearest to my house- I don't drive so the closer the better). I didn't initially know much about Lutheranism other than they preached alot about grace, but I went with my sense of calling.
And I still struggled a while with doubts... I even stopped going for a while, until I was drawn back for Pentecost, when something really extraordinary happened. I simply stopped doubting when the pastor prayed an old Catholic prayer of invocation of the Holy Spirit. I felt like something happened in my mind, I could feel a Mind or Intelligence near me. And I was overcome by a strange peace and I just went out and sat in the garden for an hour enjoying that feeling. I had no clue what had happened to me exactly, other than I felt I had been blind and suddenly I was filled with intuition. Then I started talking to Pastor more and he engaged in serious catechism with me for months, and in the end of 2016 I actually became Lutheran.
I love Pastor alot. He has never coerced me or pressured me in any way, he's simply been my friend and shared God's love with me. During Holy Week I had another series of experience, but it was more diffuse and less specific. My S.O. also said she felt God as well. Pastor washed my feet in the pedilavium on Maundy Thursday and I was changed. I started breaking down crying at the Easter vigil, overwhelmed with happiness, because I realized God had taken me "home" to where I truly belong. Jesus words came to me, in Mark 10:29-30 (and in my case, that was all literally true). And I felt called to start giving back to the congregation, as a result, because they were like family to me now. I actually found myself smiling for the first time in a long time, something I don't usually do because I have adult autism. I am definitely becoming a more whole person than I ever have before, I'm more like my old self before I dabbled in the Orthodox Church and the experience broke me... I actually experienced autistic regression in that church.
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