Your response is exactly what I expected my brother. You gave your opinions my brother of what YOU think and want to believe. People who reject eternal torments always fall back to trying to parse and define certain words such as "Forever: and "Eternal" and so on.
I am not being critical of your response, just stating a fact. Why is this?
You see, the Bible makes it clear that hell is a literal place. Christ spoke more about hell than He did of heaven. Not only Satan and his minions will be punished there,
everyone who rejects Jesus Christ will spend eternity right along with them. A desire to reject or revise the doctrine of hell will not mitigate its flames or make the place go away. Still, the idea of eternal damnation is rejected my a lot of people and you are just one of them it seems. Again, the question must be asked, WHY?
Allow me to give you some reasons. Now these are in general and are not directed at you personally.
1).
A loved one has died as a lost person.
A wife, or husband, or parent or child dies lost and our brain can not accept the Bible truth that they will be tormented eternally. So we work to come up with answers and excuses which would allow us to accept their death as a lost person.
2).
The influence of contemporary thought.
In this modern time, many go to great lengths to assure no one is offended, and the biblical doctrine of hell is considered offensive. It is too harsh, too old-fashioned, too insensitive. The wisdom of this world is focused on this life, with no thought of the life to come.
3).
Fear.
Never-ending, conscious punishment devoid of any hope is indeed a frightening prospect. Many people would rather ignore the source of fear than face it and deal with it biblically. The fact is, hell should be frightening, considering it is the place of judgment originally created for the devil and his angels.
4).
A flawed view of God’s love.
Many who reject the idea of eternal damnation do so because they find it difficult to believe that a loving God could banish people to a place as horrific as hell for all eternity.
5). A downplaying of sin.
Some find it shockingly unfair that the recompense for a mere
lifetime of sinning should be an
eternal punishment. Others reject the idea of hell because, in their minds, sin isn’t all that bad.
6).
Aberrant theories.
Another reason people reject the concept of eternal damnation is that they have been taught alternative theories. One such theory is universalism, which says that everyone will eventually make it to heaven. Another theory is annihilationism, in which the existence of hell is acknowledged, but its eternal nature is denied. Both of these are not found anywhere in the Scriptures so they become wishes and not truth.
7). Incomplete teaching.
Many contemporary pastors who
do believe in the doctrine of hell consider it simply too delicate a subject to preach on. This further contributes to the modern denial of hell.
http://www.gotquestions.org/eternal-damnation.html
No one has to agree with any of that. IMHO, to contradict the Bible’s teaching on hell is to say, essentially,
“If I were God, I would not make hell like that.” The problem with such a mindset is its inherent pride—it smugly suggests that we can improve on God’s plan. However, we are not wiser than God; we are not more loving or more just.