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It hurts to be looked down upon.

Whether you believe it or not is totally up to you, but I know first-hand how bad it hurts to be looked down upon. Not simply looked down upon, but despised, ostracized, assaulted, and demoralized.

I don't need to go into more detail, if you -really- want to know, you're welcome to private message me..
 
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Mariette said:
Whether you believe it or not is totally up to you, but I know first-hand how bad it hurts to be looked down upon. Not simply looked down upon, but despised, ostracized, assaulted, and demoralized.
So do a certain other group of people....

Mariette no one is really saying being fat is a sin, they are being tongue in cheek.
 
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Well, I guess some people have a misunderstanding as to the true intent behind this thread so let me spell it out:

The OP was trying to make an analogy between being gay and being fat to make a point that certain Christians in this country pick and select which 'sinners' to persecute.

Since gluttony of unhealthy foods tend to induce obesity in otherwise healthy people (everyone can agree on that, right?), the OP was saying that anti-gay Christians would need to also put down gluttony-induced 'fat' people as well as 'gay' people, especially since gluttony of (fatty) foods tends to lead to obesity. And since there are more gluttony-induced obese people than homosexuals in this country, the OP is asking why is the sin of gluttony-induced obesity not the main target of the Christian Right, but homosexuals is?

There, we got that little misunderstanding out of the way....

Uhm, I don't have much to contribute to the OP, except to add that most people in this country are fat because they overindulge in unhealthy food. Yes, there are people with medical conditions that make them fat (including my aunt), but they are the exceptions, not the rule. Most people are overweight not because they have a medical condition beyond their control, or have a "fat gene", but because they eat too much unhealthy junk food and do not do enough exercise to compensate.

Look at the Europeans or the Japanese, they are statistically skinner than Americans, and obesity is less rampant in their country---is it because Americans are collectively suffering from some kind of disease that makes us fat? Are Americans genetically more prone to having medical conditions that make us fat? Is it something our food or drinking water that makes us fat?

Or is it that Americans tend to eat more unhealthy foodstuff and exercise less than their industrial nation counterparts?

Hmm....and isn't it interesting that the proportion of fat people decreases in less developed nations, even in places where food is not a problem, but certainly not as cheap as it is in this country? Could it be that...most people are obese because they EAT TOO MUCH UNHEALTHY FOOD AND DO NOT EXERCISE?!

So to answer the OP's question, gluttony is a sin, it is a choice made by the eater, and it is directly responsible for the increasing girth of this nation (hehehe), the fact that no one has decided to focus on persecuting gluttony induced fat people, instead focusing on a much smaller population of gays seems unfair as it singles out one group of sinners over another.

And oh yeah....obesity related disease kills more people in this country than any 'gay' disease. Hmmm......
 
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Spherical Time said:
Ezekiel 16:49 says that gluttony is a sin
No it doesnt , it doesnt even exist . Ezekial chapter 16 ends with verse 48.

, as do Deu 21:20, Pro 23:2 Pro 23:21, Phi 3:19, Psa 10:3, Rom 8:6-8, 1 Cor 6:19-20, 2 Tim 3:1-9, Titus 1:12!

None of those verses say that and none of those verse represent any of the 613 laws God gave for the knowledge of sin and i quoted every instance of the use of the word itself to show otherwise .

The BIBLE SAYS THAT IF GLUTTONS WERE TRULY SAVED, THEY WOULD NOT BE GLUTTONS: ROMANS 12:1-2!!!!! Unrepetant gluttons are disobediant to GOD!!!! GOD OWNS YOUR BODIES, and DEMANDS that you reject the eating disorders that destroy you./
Romans 12
1. I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that you present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your reasonable service.
2. And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.


Deu 11:32 says that the law must be obeyed! DEU 21:18-21 SAYS THAT GLUTTONY IS PUNISHABLE BY DEATH!!
Here is DEU 21:18-21

18. "If a man has a stubborn and rebellious son who will not obey the voice of his father or the voice of his mother, and who, when they have chastened him, will not heed them, 19. "then his father and his mother shall take hold of him and bring him out to the elders of his city, to the gate of his city.
20. "And they shall say to the elders of his city, `This son of ours is stubborn and rebellious; he will not obey our voice; he is a glutton and a drunkard.' 21. "Then all the men of his city shall stone him to death with stones; so you shall put away the evil person from among you, and all Israel shall hear and fear.

It was disobedience to his parents that was the violation of law . Youll not find gluttony amoung any of the 613 laws God gave for the knowledge of sin .
 
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christianmarine said:
Ever met Somoans? They are naturally big, hence born that way.

I have, and your right... more or less. A Somoan baby is one big baby. However, a healthy Samoan is generally large and muscular, rather than fat. They are big, strong people when they take care of themselves and big, fat people when they don't. At least that's the case with everyone of them I've ever met....

Before you ask, I lived in Hawaii for 2 years and hung out with a lot of locals. I was also involved in a church that had frequent visitors from other islands. There is a Somoan shortage, unfortunately, but you can tell who has Somoan blood and who doesn't. It's pretty obvious.

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Trillian said:
I have, and your right... more or less. A Somoan baby is one big baby. However, a healthy Samoan is generally large and muscular, rather than fat. They are big, strong people when they take care of themselves and big, fat people when they don't. At least that's the case with everyone of them I've ever met....

Before you ask, I lived in Hawaii for 2 years and hung out with a lot of locals. I was also involved in a church that had frequent visitors from other islands. There is a Somoan shortage, unfortunately, but you can tell who has Somoan blood and who doesn't. It's pretty obvious.

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I miss my Trillian program. :(
 
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Trillian said:
??

I got the name from Hitchhikers Guide. :)

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Trillian is a program that allows you to be on all IM programs at once, through one neat program. You can even log onto each IM under several different s/ns.

So, I could be on 5 accounts on AIM, 3 on ICQ, 4 on YIM, 8 on MSN... all at the same time.
 
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thirstforknowledge said:
Trillian is a program that allows you to be on all IM programs at once, through one neat program. You can even log onto each IM under several different s/ns.

So, I could be on 5 accounts on AIM, 3 on ICQ, 4 on YIM, 8 on MSN... all at the same time.

I think it would confuse my itty-bitty brain. ^_^

In Hitchhikers Guide, Trillian was the name that Tricia McMillian took because it sounded more 'spacey'. She was the only female character... at least the only one I remember!

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Angel4Truth said:
No it doesnt , it doesnt even exist . Ezekial chapter 16 ends with verse 48.
You mis-spelled Ezekiel, and you're wrong:

16:49 Behold, this was the iniquity of thy sister Sodom, pride, fulness of bread, and abundance of idleness was in her and in her daughters, neither did she strengthen the hand of the poor and needy.
16:50 And they were haughty, and committed abomination before me: therefore I took them away as I saw good.
16:51 Neither hath Samaria committed half of thy sins; but thou hast multiplied thine abominations more than they, and hast justified thy sisters in all thine abominations which thou hast done.
16:52 Thou also, which hast judged thy sisters, bear thine own shame for thy sins that thou hast committed more abominable than they: they are more righteous than thou: yea, be thou confounded also, and bear thy shame, in that thou hast justified thy sisters.
16:53 When I shall bring again their captivity, the captivity of Sodom and her daughters, and the captivity of Samaria and her daughters, then will I bring again the captivity of thy captives in the midst of them:
16:54 That thou mayest bear thine own shame, and mayest be confounded in all that thou hast done, in that thou art a comfort unto them.
16:55 When thy sisters, Sodom and her daughters, shall return to their former estate, and Samaria and her daughters shall return to their former estate, then thou and thy daughters shall return to your former estate.
16:56 For thy sister Sodom was not mentioned by thy mouth in the day of thy pride,
16:57 Before thy wickedness was discovered, as at the time of thy reproach of the daughters of Syria, and all that are round about her, the daughters of the Philistines, which despise thee round about.
16:58 Thou hast borne thy lewdness and thine abominations, saith the LORD.
16:59 For thus saith the Lord GOD; I will even deal with thee as thou hast done, which hast despised the oath in breaking the covenant.
16:60 Nevertheless I will remember my covenant with thee in the days of thy youth, and I will establish unto thee an everlasting covenant.
16:61 Then thou shalt remember thy ways, and be ashamed, when thou shalt receive thy sisters, thine elder and thy younger: and I will give them unto thee for daughters, but not by thy covenant.
16:62 And I will establish my covenant with thee; and thou shalt know that I am the LORD:
16:63 That thou mayest remember, and be confounded, and never open thy mouth any more because of thy shame, when I am pacified toward thee for all that thou hast done, saith the Lord GOD.

Ezekiel chapter 16 goes up to verse 63. Are you trying to mislead people?

None of those verses say that and none of those verse represent any of the 613 laws God gave for the knowledge of sin and i quoted every instance of the use of the word itself to show otherwise .
There is no word for "homosexuality," in the original Greek, but you find lots of verses on that. Perhaps you should try actually reading some of the verses. At least one mentions gluttony explicitly, and others refer to it through context and synonyms.

Further, one of those, mentioned below, does mention gluttony. To say that none of them mention gluttony is false.

The BIBLE SAYS THAT IF GLUTTONS WERE TRULY SAVED, THEY WOULD NOT BE GLUTTONS: ROMANS 12:1-2!!!!! Unrepetant gluttons are disobediant to GOD!!!! GOD OWNS YOUR BODIES, and DEMANDS that you reject the eating disorders that destroy you.
Romans 12
1. I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that you present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your reasonable service.
2. And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.
Uh, yes. I may have put it like some of you would have put it, in caps and with an excessive number of exclaimation marks, but that doesn't change the meaning.

Here is DEU 21:18-21

18. "If a man has a stubborn and rebellious son who will not obey the voice of his father or the voice of his mother, and who, when they have chastened him, will not heed them, 19. "then his father and his mother shall take hold of him and bring him out to the elders of his city, to the gate of his city.
20. "And they shall say to the elders of his city, `This son of ours is stubborn and rebellious; he will not obey our voice; he is a glutton and a drunkard.' 21. "Then all the men of his city shall stone him to death with stones; so you shall put away the evil person from among you, and all Israel shall hear and fear.

It was disobedience to his parents that was the violation of law . Youll not find gluttony amoung any of the 613 laws God gave for the knowledge of sin .
"Among?" You won't find the word "homosexuality," either. I see that you are content to misrepresent the Bible when it pleases you, something that I don't believe that a Christian should do.

He said, "you shall know them through their actions," and now I know you. Your actions speak for themselves; both from your use of the Bible and from your desire to use it for your own ends.
 
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Trillian said:
In Hitchhikers Guide, Trillian was the name that Tricia McMillian took because it sounded more 'spacey'. She was the only female character... at least the only one I remember!
She was the only one in that book. Arthur meets his soulmate, Fenchurch, in Life, the Universe and Everything, only to have her disappear without explanation in the relatively abysmal Mostly Harmless, whereupon Arthur discovers he has a daughter mothered by... Trillian.
 
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TeddyKGB said:
She was the only one in that book. Arthur meets his soulmate, Fenchurch, in Life, the Universe and Everything, only to have her disappear without explanation in the relatively abysmal Mostly Harmless, whereupon Arthur discovers he has a daughter mothered by... Trillian.

Great! Now you've gone and ruined the whole series for me!!! LOL

I haven't gotten the other books yet. Does Trillian end up being a character you hate??? :)

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Trillian said:
I haven't gotten the other books yet. Does Trillian end up being a character you hate???
I am afraid so. Trillain conceives via artificial insemination (Arthur's sperm being the only human in the intergalactic sperm bank), shows up unannounced on the planet where Arthur is stranded, drops off her daughter (whom Arthur knew nothing about until just then), and leaves.
 
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TeddyKGB said:
I am afraid so. Trillain conceives via artificial insemination (Arthur's sperm being the only human in the intergalactic sperm bank), shows up unannounced on the planet where Arthur is stranded, drops off her daughter (whom Arthur knew nothing about until just then), and leaves.

Great! Now, I'm gonna need 15000 blessings to change my name! LOL. Maybe I just won't read the other books. That is more likely than my getting 15000 blessings. ^_^

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Trillian said:
Great! Now, I'm gonna need 15000 blessings to change my name! LOL. Maybe I just won't read the other books. That is more likely than my getting 15000 blessings. ^_^
Nah. The name now evokes images of Zooey Deschanel, who is rather attractive.

Besides, TeddyKGB wasn't exactly a nice guy either.
 
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Spherical Time said:
You mis-spelled Ezekiel, and you're wrong:

16:49 Behold, this was the iniquity of thy sister Sodom, pride, fulness of bread, and abundance of idleness was in her and in her daughters, neither did she strengthen the hand of the poor and needy.
16:50 And they were haughty, and committed abomination before me: therefore I took them away as I saw good.
16:51 Neither hath Samaria committed half of thy sins; but thou hast multiplied thine abominations more than they, and hast justified thy sisters in all thine abominations which thou hast done.
16:52 Thou also, which hast judged thy sisters, bear thine own shame for thy sins that thou hast committed more abominable than they: they are more righteous than thou: yea, be thou confounded also, and bear thy shame, in that thou hast justified thy sisters.
16:53 When I shall bring again their captivity, the captivity of Sodom and her daughters, and the captivity of Samaria and her daughters, then will I bring again the captivity of thy captives in the midst of them:
16:54 That thou mayest bear thine own shame, and mayest be confounded in all that thou hast done, in that thou art a comfort unto them.
16:55 When thy sisters, Sodom and her daughters, shall return to their former estate, and Samaria and her daughters shall return to their former estate, then thou and thy daughters shall return to your former estate.
16:56 For thy sister Sodom was not mentioned by thy mouth in the day of thy pride,
16:57 Before thy wickedness was discovered, as at the time of thy reproach of the daughters of Syria, and all that are round about her, the daughters of the Philistines, which despise thee round about.
16:58 Thou hast borne thy lewdness and thine abominations, saith the LORD.
16:59 For thus saith the Lord GOD; I will even deal with thee as thou hast done, which hast despised the oath in breaking the covenant.
16:60 Nevertheless I will remember my covenant with thee in the days of thy youth, and I will establish unto thee an everlasting covenant.
16:61 Then thou shalt remember thy ways, and be ashamed, when thou shalt receive thy sisters, thine elder and thy younger: and I will give them unto thee for daughters, but not by thy covenant.
16:62 And I will establish my covenant with thee; and thou shalt know that I am the LORD:
16:63 That thou mayest remember, and be confounded, and never open thy mouth any more because of thy shame, when I am pacified toward thee for all that thou hast done, saith the Lord GOD.

Ezekiel chapter 16 goes up to verse 63. Are you trying to mislead people?
No , i would never try to mislead anyone , but your accusation is noted . I mistakenly looked at the chapter numbers instead of the verse number , i assure you it was merely a mistake as i quoted myself every instance of the word gluttony myself in a previous post including the verses you posted .

There is no word for "homosexuality," in the original Greek, but you find lots of verses on that. Perhaps you should try actually reading some of the verses. At least one mentions gluttony explicitly, and others refer to it through context and synonyms.
There is no law against gluttony , where its mentioned the sin was disobeying , and in your verses from ezekiel , the sin is selfishness , not overeating .

Further, one of those, mentioned below, does mention gluttony. To say that none of them mention gluttony is false.
Nowhere did i say its not mentioned , i said its not one of the 613 laws of God that were given for the knowledge of sin . To say that i said none of them mention it , is also false , i actually posted all the verses that mention it ,none of which show IT to be the sin itself .

Uh, yes. I may have put it like some of you would have put it, in caps and with an excessive number of exclaimation marks, but that doesn't change the meaning.

"Among?" You won't find the word "homosexuality," either. I see that you are content to misrepresent the Bible when it pleases you, something that I don't believe that a Christian should do.
Actually you are who is misrepresenting both the verses where the word is used and also mispresenting my words . Ive not even mentioned the word homosexuality or anything to do with it in this thread and i also posted each use of the word gluttony and showed quite clearly that its not a sin per the 613 laws of God in itself . But being that you are a non believer , and quite zealous to misrepresent what the bible says and what i said , i think the conversation is over and pray that one day you will find the truth of God and wish you well and forgive you .

He said, "you shall know them through their actions," and now I know you. Your actions speak for themselves; both from your use of the Bible and from your desire to use it for your own ends.
May God be merciful in your life and I forgive your personal attacks .
 
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Angel4Truth said:
No , i would never try to mislead anyone , but your accusation is noted . I mistakenly looked at the chapter numbers instead of the verse number , i assure you it was merely a mistake as i quoted myself every instance of the word gluttony myself in a previous post including the verses you posted .
I'll accept your word that it was a mistake, but you have to understand how having a Christian make a major textual mistake with the bible looked to me at the time.

There is no law against gluttony , where its mentioned the sin was disobeying , and in your verses from ezekiel , the sin is selfishness , not overeating .
But the bible does mention glutony as a sin, and the passage from ezekiel does include it, although not by the name "gluttony." Perhaps you're not familiar with the terminology, but I guarentee, it's there plain as day.

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Nowhere did i say its not mentioned ,
Except for when you said: "Youll not find gluttony amoung any of the 613 laws God gave for the knowledge of sin ." That seems like you're saying that it isn't mentioned.

i said its not one of the 613 laws of God that were given for the knowledge of sin . To say that i said none of them mention it , is also false , i actually posted all the verses that mention it ,none of which show IT to be the sin itself .
Then you missed some. Is every instance of Jesus in the Bible marked with both his name and title? Then why restrict every instance of this sin to where it is called by name?

Actually you are who is misrepresenting both the verses where the word is used and also mispresenting my words . Ive not even mentioned the word homosexuality or anything to do with it in this thread
Then I don't think you understand the point of this thread. This thread is not about gluttony or obesity at all, as I and others have already mentioned. It's about homosexuality and many people's constant biting attacks on it, including yours.

and i also posted each use of the word gluttony and showed quite clearly that its not a sin per the 613 laws of God in itself .
The New Testament calls gluttony a sin too, you know. Even if it wasn't a sin in the Old testament, it's the New Testament that Christians define their faith with. How do you argue against that?

But being that you are a non believer , and quite zealous to misrepresent what the bible says and what i said ,
You're accusation is noted, but quite false. I'm not misrepresenting what the Bible says, and I honestly think that you are, probably just because you don't like it when an non-believer has scripture to back up his claims.

i think the conversation is over and pray that one day you will find the truth of God and wish you well and forgive you .

May God be merciful in your life and I forgive your personal attacks .
I hope that one day you'll find the peace, kindness and forgiveness in Christianity that I've seen in others, or at least peace and kindness even if it doesn't come from your God.

I also forgive your personal attacks. Not because some of some impersonal and objective morality, but because I personally think that it's the right thing to do.
 
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