I have to bring some BIG decisions to the table soon and I'm scared to death to talk to hubby about it. (Concerning housing/finances) I just dont know how to approach my own husband when it comes to financial matters. I already know he will probably say no to a big proposition coming our way especially because its from my parents, but I think its a wise one. Yet I'm terrible with words. I'm supposed to be napping, but I'm fully wide awake and my bowels are bothering me. :-/ And these things need to be decided quickly because he deploys in less than 2 months. I have no idea where to begin or what to say or how or when. I dont know if I should just automatically 'take my husbands side' (not that its about sides) simply cuz its the easy option or if I should push for what I think could be a really great and wise opportunity.