Strippers...What are your thoughts??

[sbhaden]

It is impossible to go to a show like this and not have lustful thoughts. The Bible says that if you lust in your mind, you are just as guilty of the sin as if you had done the actual act for real. Remember King David? Where did it start? Answer: in his mind. What did it lead to? Someone died.

 

[Seeking...]

It is impossible to go to a show like this and not have lustful thoughts. The Bible says that if you lust in your mind, you are just as guilty of the sin as if you had done the actual act for real. Remember King David? Where did it start? Answer: in his mind. What did it lead to? Someone died.

This is an inaccurate statement - I just went to the Chippendales show in Vegas and it was amazing - but in many ways more amusing than sexual. The most thrilling visual part involved rather acrobatic feats using drapery... I do not want to take these guys home - I simply enjoy the illusion of a man who will go to great lengths to please me. The patron likes the appearance of control, of being the object of desire - I imagine that most men enjoy a similar illusion about the stripper in front of them.

 

[DrFate]

The Medival Polish people did not have a nudity ban. For them nudidty did not automatically mean lust.
Derf

 

[DrFate]

Aww, you dont find lesbian unwed mothers stripping titilating?
Still they are good for sex starved military personel who have not been with a woman for awhile, or ever.
Derf

 

[DrFate]

I forgot about the prostitution aspect of Bachelor parties at the ones I went to. But then I would not stick parts of my body in a sewer.
The strippers were young, pretty, playful, and smelled like soap at the parties I attended.

 

[DrFate]

So SBHaden, when You have gone to see strippers perform you have fantasized about having sex with them?
I have never got that far in my thoughts about the strippers I seen, other than the ones I was dating.
Derf

 

[DrFate]

Well, I'm fabulously hot anyway, so its nice that he can see past it to my blinding intellect....

Yeah, many find short round women Hot.

 

[DrFate]

This is an inaccurate statement - I just went to the Chippendales show in Vegas and it was amazing - but in many ways more amusing than sexual. The most thrilling visual part involved rather acrobatic feats using drapery... I do not want to take these guys home - I simply enjoy the illusion of a man who will go to great lengths to please me. The patron likes the appearance of control, of being the object of desire - I imagine that most men enjoy a similar illusion about the stripper in front of them.

Ah but Seeking, you are a female and a rationalist.
So you dont have the Lust of a Male Christian.
Derf

 

[Seeking...]

Ah but Seeking, you are a female and a rationalist.
So you dont have the Lust of a Male Christian.
Derf

But I am bisexual and I've been told that gives me Lust bonus points...

 

[hiumble1]

Jesus said 'you heard it said the thou shall not commit adultry, but I say to you that look upon another with lust has already commited adultry with them in their mind'

I do not hate strippers, I believe it problematic for salvation to place yourself in situations, where you know your mind is your greatest enemy, true you may not do anything, but our thought life is judged as well. To say they are nice people, they need the money, they are not hurting anyone are justifications for what your conscience is telling you no. better to help them by giving them money, better job, etc. For what it profit a man who gains love from this world and all the money but looses his soul on the day of judgement.

 

[DrFate]

But I am bisexual and I've been told that gives me Lust bonus points...

Sure you get bonus lust points. But you are still using different plumbing, hormones, and things. BTW i had a pal who was Buy Sexual. It seemed to be the only way he could do it.

 

[Lifesaver]

To go see a stripper is certainly a sin of lust. It is never acceptable.

 

[Roman Soldier]

People sometimes don't have the ability to have boyfriends or girlfriends, and this does not end sexual desire.

Strippers are exciting because they're naked in front of a room full of people. And they're doing it for money, and usually a lot of it.

 

[Jetgirl]

Yeah, many find short round women Hot.

I'm not sure if I should be insulted or not... you tell me.

 

[Lokisdottir]

Sure you get bonus lust points. But you are still using different plumbing, hormones, and things. BTW i had a pal who was Buy Sexual. It seemed to be the only way he could do it.

Does that mean he was aroused by shopping at the mall?

Err... sorry.

 

[DrFate]

Does that mean he was aroused by shopping at the mall?

Err... sorry.

Victorias Secret or Layne Bryant we serve all kinds here.
Vulcan

 

[DrFate]

To go see a stripper is certainly a sin of lust. It is never acceptable.

Really? I have never been able to get lustfull about strippers dancing unless they were dancing with me in my bedroom.You are too young to know as you cant get into a strip club.

 

[Gwendar Evergreen]

Before, you go on I'm not in anyway supporting them so I hope no one takes offense to this.

Anyways, my question is how do you all feel about family members/bf/gf's seeing strippers? I recently heard a distant friend that I am staying with talk about going to see one and immediately felt very awkward around them! I just don't understand why anyone would want to see one. Or why boyfriends, girlfriends, husbands, wives, fathers, mothers or what not would feel the need to go see them so strongly that they would risk that relationship. Just my opinion and again sorry in advance if I offended anyone!

I would leave my boyfriend immediately if he went to a strip bar. No question.
But he's not even interested in going anyway, so I have nothing to worry about.

 

[mattjay]

Strip clubs don't really interest me, the cheesy music usually turns me away

As for strippERS, I see them as no different from any other female employee. it's just a job!

 

[Roman Soldier]

Stripping should be more and more profitable over the next few years. With a declining job market, and the rich getting richer, only the sex industry will alway people to "get rich quick."