It's me the husband, here to make my marriage better. I have a growing frustration that I am afraid is just going to get to the point of no return. I have been married a little over 5 years. In my house, I do 95 percent of the cooking, paying the bills, and cleaning. In the span of 5 years, I can say confidently that my wife has not cooked more than 30 times. In that same span, I can also say that my wife hasn't swept, mopped, done laundry (wash and put away), or cleaned anything more than 10 times. I am exhausted in feeling so overwhelmed. It gets to the point that I get upset when my kids or her make a mess because I know that if I don't clean it, no one else will. I have talked to her many times, always followed by the same, I'm sorry, I will do better. It has been 5 years, and nothing is better. She will do one thing, and expect me to praise her for it. But this is our responsibility. We have a home that we have been blessed with and keeping it at least picked up and clean to the point the roaches won't come crawling in is necessary and I believe God ordained. What can I do if talking doesn't help? What are my options?