If there is no real thing, they certainly are not going to be making comparisons. But many studies and my own experience has shown that pastors coach people about how to talk in tongues.
My experience is the opposite. I've heard people teach about tongues, but coaching someone how to do it is highly unlikely, because how do you do it?
Repeat after me: "jsoweofns sjofsd flelwljsdf sl"
"jsoweofns sjofsd flelwljsdf sl"
"Right, now you are speaking in tongues"
"Wow!"
The best I've ever managed is telling people it is like speaking gobbledygook, but clearly that in itself is just speaking gobbledygook, it needs the Holy Spirit to to turn it from nonsense into something that God understands and from there that can be interpreted.
There are also plenty of examples of people speaking in tongues without being coached from Agnes Ozman to David Pyches to Roy Peacock and so on. People hear about the gift and try it out.
It happened to me once that I got talking about tongues at a beach mission once with one of the younger team members. Later in the evening she (without prompting) spoke in tongues and then followed it with an interpretation. It caused controversy because there were cessationists there who were incensed that she had done something so heretical. But she was not coached, but prompted by the Holy Spirit.
That right there proves that is it phony because a gift is just that...a gift, not something learned.
On the contrary, even gifts have to be exercised, which means you can grow into its usage. Or to put it another way if you buy a lego model for a young child do you expect them to straight away understand how each piece fits together and then build the model... or teach them how to follow the instructions and build the specified model so that next time they might have a go themselves.
Gifts have to be taught about, just like everything else in the NT.
Also, why is it that the one gift mentioned in Corinthians that is the easiest to replicate is the one that is the focus of this experience?
Because it is the easiest to replicate! Seems obvious to me why it is the most common. It clearly was the most common in the Corinithian church also which is why Paul has to provide corrective teaching.
Why are not healings nearly as often claimed as tongues-speaking? Because it is not that easy to heal someone if you do not have the gift of healing.
Perhaps because people are lazy or people are more in need of edification than healing. The reality is, as mentioned above, that the Corinthian church suffered from the same problem, prompting Paul to say "eagerly desire the greater gifts."
But anyone can make repetitious sounds.
Which almost certainly isn't tongues, which should be a language not repetition of the same nonsense over and over.
And there are many other indications that the languages are not languages at all. For example, people with Southern accents or Bostonian accents speak in tongues with the accents they came in with. But these are supposed to be other languages miraculously being spoken by someone who does not have any ability in them otherwise.
Odd you would make the accents a factor. I'd see that as evidence of speaking in another language. If I went over to France and in my best school-taught French told someone that I don't have an accent, I'd probably be laughed at.
People who manage to speak without an accent have trained the accent out of themselves and are presenting a false image of themselves.
I suspect that God is able to understand both Southern and Bostonian accents equally as well. He certainly understands when people pray to him in other languages, so accents should be easy (except for Geordie, that is impossible).
I don't want to be offensive, but you want the answer, and this is a start.
Indeed but the danger is the assumption that because this is your experience, everyone else must have the same experiences and/or views on the subject... and if they don't they are lying.
Your willingness to equate Irving with Smith & Eddy et al suggests that rather than investigate the truth you have already made up your mind and categorised appropriately.
Like we have both said, there is no proof, but there is evidence and one or two people misusing this particular gift is not good reason to suppose that everyone has... else Paul would simply have told everyone at Corinth to stop speaking in tongues.