This forum is starting to morph into a soundoff board about how "no one wants to date me!" I, unfortunately, have contributed to this mass movement. But why don't we start supporting each other in our quest for singleness? Let's get some things straight here:
1) Singleness means you still feel sexual and emotional things for the opposite gender.
2) You still struggle with sin and temptation like lust and obsession.
3) Singleness doesn't mean you won't ever marry, it means you aren't worrying about marrying NOW
4) Singleness means you WILL interact with members of the opposite gender, perhaps even intimately (as in intimate discussions)
5) Singleness means you will have to fight and control infatuation
6) It means that Jesus will be your lover, and that no woman/man can steal you away from him.
These are some of the things that I have experienced in purposeful singleness. I'm getting a little weary (here and especially in real life) of people seeking a spouse and this whole idea that God will provide a spouse if you will be patient...what a bunch of hogwash. God doesn't guarantee us anything like that. He tells us to get our minds off this world and onto his kingdom. How about as singles we try to figure out how in the world to do this? He guarantees us eternal life, and to me that's enough. To work together as men and women to find a way to love people and give glory to God. And let's support each other (yes, men supporting women and women supporting men) as we keep our singleness without letting our feelings get in the way. Yes, we can surmount our feelings to greater serve God. So let's do it! Who's with me?
1) Singleness means you still feel sexual and emotional things for the opposite gender.
2) You still struggle with sin and temptation like lust and obsession.
3) Singleness doesn't mean you won't ever marry, it means you aren't worrying about marrying NOW
4) Singleness means you WILL interact with members of the opposite gender, perhaps even intimately (as in intimate discussions)
5) Singleness means you will have to fight and control infatuation
6) It means that Jesus will be your lover, and that no woman/man can steal you away from him.
These are some of the things that I have experienced in purposeful singleness. I'm getting a little weary (here and especially in real life) of people seeking a spouse and this whole idea that God will provide a spouse if you will be patient...what a bunch of hogwash. God doesn't guarantee us anything like that. He tells us to get our minds off this world and onto his kingdom. How about as singles we try to figure out how in the world to do this? He guarantees us eternal life, and to me that's enough. To work together as men and women to find a way to love people and give glory to God. And let's support each other (yes, men supporting women and women supporting men) as we keep our singleness without letting our feelings get in the way. Yes, we can surmount our feelings to greater serve God. So let's do it! Who's with me?