Slim pickin's

[AirForceTeacher]

I think I scared a few of the men off in the beginning...LOL But, I agree that it goes both ways. I still say my biggest struggle is finding a guy that is in the same place I am kids-wise. Most guys I've met either have no kids (and I'm not sure if I want to have more kids) or they have teenagers and don't want to start all over again with little guys like mine.

Maybe I'll meet someone once Fall ball starts...

Kids don't scare me - it's how they behave that I pay attention to. I don't like seeing a teenager yell at his mom. I pay very close attention to whether or not they would get along with my kids.

 

[ido]

Kids don't scare me - it's how they behave that I pay attention to. I don't like seeing a teenager yell at his mom. I pay very close attention to whether or not they would get along with my kids.

I couldn't agree more that parent/child interaction is a big factor - as well as compatibility with my own kids.

I'll take it one further and say that I would trust my kids' opinions of the person I was dating more than my own one some level - b/c kids are very intuitive and know if someone really likes them or is just playing along... Not that I would leave it completely up to my kids, but I want them to know that their feelings on the matter will be considered/respected.

 

[soccerdad66]

Hmm...soccerdad never responded, so maybe he's off flirting with one of the moms from his team...

Yah sure

I rarely in a position to meet some of those women. Maybe I should join a co-ed team. I'm not going to meet too many single women on my mens team.

 

[ElElena]

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[soccerdad66]

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Forget something?

 

[ElElena]

yes, I did forget something -- but i did not forget to laugh after reading your response

 

[soccerdad66]

yes, I did forget something -- but i did not forget to laugh after reading your response

Well, it would be better then meeting someone from my mens team.

(Umm, it wouldn't happen)

 

[ElElena]

good decision - & glad to read that

 

[ido]

Yah sure

I rarely in a position to meet some of those women. Maybe I should join a co-ed team. I'm not going to meet too many single women on my mens team.

Well....hook a sister up, would ya??







(kidding!)

 

[ElElena]

so cute, fln.

 

[soccerdad66]

Well....hook a sister up, would ya??

Well, we do have one real tall guy on our team

 

[ElElena]

now -- if he's single and her type and........ well maybe she won't be kidding , what do you think, fln.?

 

[soccerdad66]

now -- if he's single and her type and........ well maybe she won't be kidding , what do you think, fln.?

Did I forget to mention he's older then me? He one of the original members of an over 40 team that's been around for 6 years.

 

[ElElena]

I did forget the most important question any Christian gal wants to know -- Is he a Christian? She may want to know that and I forgot if her age is on here

 

[soccerdad66]

I did forget the most important question any Christian gal wants to know -- Is he a Christian? She may want to know that and I forgot if her age is on here

I don't know. I don't really know him all that well.

No one on that teams knows I'm a Christian, it just never comes up. We play soccer and leave.

 

[ElElena]

Soccer -- busy sport -- they play it all the time near where I live -- hear the cheering from my home --

 

[soccerdad66]

Yup, especially when you coach and play, but I love it.

 

[ElElena]

I thought fln. would show up again & I wanted to see if she was going to take the offer seriously-- but then again you don't know if he's a Christian. If lacking the most important thing it's a no go is my guess.

 

[ElElena]

Coaching and playing -- busy busy sport -- I know someone that met her guy b/c he was the coach of the local soccer team -- worked out well for them -- I thought about that when you made your previous post --

 

[dluvs2trvl]

I think the fact that she's in florida and the guy that soccerdad knows is in the state of Washington - probably wouldn't be something flnativegrl is looking for...now if soccerdad knows anyone in Florida...