Sexual assault is never permitted under the law, first of all.
There are a number of forms of sexual crimes which the Bible makes no mention of being wrong.
Statutory rape AFAIK isn't what we would consider it because Jews become "adults" at 13 (Bar and Bat Mitzvah).
Yet today, if you caught some 30 year old in a relation with a 13 year old, would you not find that horrible? Are you saying that finding a 13 year old in a relation with a 30 year old that much more horrible than finding a 21 year old in a relation with a 30 year old is all due to cultural relativism?
And daughters, according to Jewish tradition, all have a say in whether they're going to marry a man or not. So while daughters were given in marriage, it wasn't this medieval notion of the daughter being given to this toad of a man while she would rather have someone else - at least if the father was acting according to tradition.
Arranged Marriages? - Q & A
That resource outright ignores two different kinds of marriage in the Bible.
The first is that resulting from rape of a virgin, which resulted in the man being required to marry the virgin. The father got to say no, but here lies two problems. One, nothing ever stated the father must ask the daughter (a good father would ask, but God does not require it), and two, if the father says no marriage, the man still gets off with only a fine (even if it is a hefty fine, it is still only a fine). This was also the 'punishment' for child rape.
Secondly, in Exodus 21, it is clear the parents sell the daughter into slavery, then her master, not her father, gets to say who she marries. Once again, the Bible never requires her consent (once again, you would think a good master would get it, but God does not require it).
Here, let me quote something from the Talmud (
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Talmud).
The
Talmud (
Hebrew: תַּלְמוּד
talmūd "instruction, learning", from a
root lmd "teach, study") is a central text of mainstream
Judaism, in the form of a record of
rabbinic discussions pertaining to
Jewish law,
ethics, philosophy, customs and history.
This is from Niddah 44, though I'm not 100% certain how the Talmud is organized, any time you go to a collection of it, you can normally find some link which ends in niddah_##, where those numbers go up to 64 (maybe even higher). All you have to do normally is change it to 44 to get and then just use you browsers search function, and you will find the below.
Not for the faint at heart.
A GIRL OF THE AGE OF THREE YEARS AND ONE DAY MAY BE BETROTHED23 BY INTERCOURSE
[foot note 23]
Subject to her father's approval.
Here is one from niddah 64 I stumbled upon while looking up the above.
IF A YOUNG GIRL, WHOSE AGE OF MENSTRUATION10 HAS NOT ARRIVED, MARRIED, BETH SHAMMAI RULED: SHE IS ALLOWED11 FOUR NIGHTS,12 AND BETH HILLEL RULED: UNTIL THE WOUND IS HEALED.13
[footnotes 10-13]
Lit., 'her time to see'.
For marital intercourse.
Though blood appeared, it is assumed to be that of injured virginity which, unlike menstrual blood, is clean.
This is explained in the Gemara infra.
Ok, now, it only gets worse here.
The Gemara is the basis for all codes of
rabbinic law and is much quoted in other
rabbinic literature.
Niddah 44
GEMARA. Our Rabbis taught: A girl of the age of three years may be betrothed by intercourse; so R. Meir. But the Sages say: Only one who is three years and one day old. What is the practical difference between them? The school of R Jannai replied: The practical difference between them is the day preceding the first day of the fourth year.
35 R. Johanan, however, replied: The practical difference between them is the rule that thirty days of a year are counted as the full year.
36
An objection was raised: A girl of the age of three years and even one of the age of two years and one day may be betrothed by intercourse; so R. Meir. But the Sages say: Only one who is three years and one day old.
And I'll just save your eyes from having to read the discussion in Niddah 64 Gemara which discusses how long a child has to heal after having sex.
So yeah... And here I thought Muslims were the ones well known for child marriage and I thought Muhammad was pretty bad for marrying a 6 year old, but that is twice the age of what is allowed here.
Now, perhaps there is some other portion of the text that I haven't found which over turns the above, but even here there are three problems.
1. Why doesn't anyone point out that it has been overturned. A little link on the side would be appreciated.
2. For some amount of time, likely centuries, these were still the laws.
3. Nothing in the Old Testament says there is anything wrong with these.
Well, all this aside, my world religions class next semester just got a whole lot more interesting. Considering a good portion of the time will be spent on Islam and Judaism...