Ok, well, during the months I was not on here, I grew more with my faith, and also found a guy at my church. We started dating. We've been dating for about 4 months now.
The thing is..there is a girl he talks to who lives in California (we live in New York). She is engaged, but the way they talk to each other is weird. She calls my boyfriend babe and stuff like that. She also talks to him constantly on text message. When we are going out, and while we are out, she is texting him constantly. It's like we don't have a moments peace. And he has the need to get up at least once to check his mail online while we are out. I told him of my concern too, and he was like I have nothing to worry about. He even had the girl talk to me (it annoyed me that he told her; i wanted to keep it between him and i). But it's like, now i feel every time i tell him something, he will blurt it to her. I know they've known each other for 5 years, but still. I'd like to keep some things secret. And he seems so obsessive with checking his phone too, seeing if she left him any messages. In the span of a half hour, he pulled his phone out at least more then 10 times.
Should I be bugging over this? or am I just over-reacting and getting bent out of shape over nothing?
The thing is..there is a girl he talks to who lives in California (we live in New York). She is engaged, but the way they talk to each other is weird. She calls my boyfriend babe and stuff like that. She also talks to him constantly on text message. When we are going out, and while we are out, she is texting him constantly. It's like we don't have a moments peace. And he has the need to get up at least once to check his mail online while we are out. I told him of my concern too, and he was like I have nothing to worry about. He even had the girl talk to me (it annoyed me that he told her; i wanted to keep it between him and i). But it's like, now i feel every time i tell him something, he will blurt it to her. I know they've known each other for 5 years, but still. I'd like to keep some things secret. And he seems so obsessive with checking his phone too, seeing if she left him any messages. In the span of a half hour, he pulled his phone out at least more then 10 times.
Should I be bugging over this? or am I just over-reacting and getting bent out of shape over nothing?