its mainly the girl from what it seems. she texts him and if he doesnt respond in a certain amount of time she gets fussy and annoyed w/ him. he tries to just have him and i time, no cell phones out, and his phone buzzes like crazy bc she doesnt get to stop texting until we are done hanging out together.
its all because her fiance isnt around at night which causes her to text my boyfriend. i mean, yes he does encourage it by texting her back sometimes but there are other times h
e doesnt and she just persistantly texts him anyway.
she is the one i really cant stand. they usually only message eachother when one of them has a problem. he hasnt had any as of late but you cant be telling me that she has THAT many that she texts him nonstop. sometimes it would go off so much that i'd be like "babe check your phone. she might need you. i dont want her getting mad at you" or something.
hes grown btter with it the past few days but she just doesnt get it it seems. what is she going to do next year on her honeymoon? text my boyfriend during it??seriously i wouldnt even on my honeymood. its my time away. i might just call people to say "hey we are doing well. see you when we return" sort of thing.
now forget it if i marry this guy and she does this to us. his phone will be off and thrown out the window. he even said to me that she can become a little annoying, especially when she gets fussy at him.
i found out that the reason she might be attached to him is because when she was 15(when they "met" online..my boyfriend was i believe 20) she opened up to him saying she was raped. i mean, i guess i could see why she is all attached to him.(yeah im playing devils advocate at the moment now--if thats what they call it). so maybe i shouldnt get annoyed.
i mean i dont want to be stressed w/ him. he does make me truly happy and i just met his parents for the first time last night(they live 12 hours away thats why) and his mother seemed to have loved me. she whispered into my boyfriends ear and said while looking at me "take care of our girl". my boyfriend told me she calls me her girl. Kind of awesome.
but it seems i have not much to worry about. i guess i just hate not knowing what my bf and that girl talk about which causes me to spaz out and worry.
i dont think shes even his type. She doesnt sound Christian because she tells my boyfriend that she has sex all the time w/ her fiance. my boyfriend wants someone w/ Christian values..which is why i guess he is dating me.
and he said the time he did "like"(he said it like that..quotes and all) he got common sense and then didnt "like" her not even a few minutes later(this is while she was w/ her now fiance-they dated since high school).
so maybe im bugging over nothing. i guess i just do because of how i was hurt in the past by guys.
thanks for the continued responses..and thanks lynn!you've been responding since the start! you rock! so does everyone else on here!
its all because her fiance isnt around at night which causes her to text my boyfriend. i mean, yes he does encourage it by texting her back sometimes but there are other times h
e doesnt and she just persistantly texts him anyway.
she is the one i really cant stand. they usually only message eachother when one of them has a problem. he hasnt had any as of late but you cant be telling me that she has THAT many that she texts him nonstop. sometimes it would go off so much that i'd be like "babe check your phone. she might need you. i dont want her getting mad at you" or something.
hes grown btter with it the past few days but she just doesnt get it it seems. what is she going to do next year on her honeymoon? text my boyfriend during it??seriously i wouldnt even on my honeymood. its my time away. i might just call people to say "hey we are doing well. see you when we return" sort of thing.
now forget it if i marry this guy and she does this to us. his phone will be off and thrown out the window. he even said to me that she can become a little annoying, especially when she gets fussy at him.
i found out that the reason she might be attached to him is because when she was 15(when they "met" online..my boyfriend was i believe 20) she opened up to him saying she was raped. i mean, i guess i could see why she is all attached to him.(yeah im playing devils advocate at the moment now--if thats what they call it). so maybe i shouldnt get annoyed.
i mean i dont want to be stressed w/ him. he does make me truly happy and i just met his parents for the first time last night(they live 12 hours away thats why) and his mother seemed to have loved me. she whispered into my boyfriends ear and said while looking at me "take care of our girl". my boyfriend told me she calls me her girl. Kind of awesome.
but it seems i have not much to worry about. i guess i just hate not knowing what my bf and that girl talk about which causes me to spaz out and worry.
i dont think shes even his type. She doesnt sound Christian because she tells my boyfriend that she has sex all the time w/ her fiance. my boyfriend wants someone w/ Christian values..which is why i guess he is dating me.
and he said the time he did "like"(he said it like that..quotes and all) he got common sense and then didnt "like" her not even a few minutes later(this is while she was w/ her now fiance-they dated since high school).
so maybe im bugging over nothing. i guess i just do because of how i was hurt in the past by guys.
thanks for the continued responses..and thanks lynn!you've been responding since the start! you rock! so does everyone else on here!
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