Well, I mean, you still need to actually find your spouse sexually attractive right? Otherwise you're asking for problems.
I'm asking you how unlikely it is for you to find the average non-obese woman to be "sexually attractive" and what reasons would you find one not "sexually attractive"?
Do you think that's average for most people, having 5-10 friends of the opposite sex? I mean, it might be, but I find it pretty unlikely.
If you go into it with the secular mindset, and bemoan the "friendzone" and end up angering women, then no, you won't have very many female friends. If you look at women in such a way that you size them up for sexual potential, then no, you won't have very many female friends. If you're constantly trying to flirt with them, then no... you won't have very many female friends.
I'm not very social, and I've got two current female friends, and I've had three others in the past (they moved away). That's five total. If I'm an anti-social recluse who has 5 female friends, it surely can't be that hard for someone who isn't a social recluse to have more, right?
Also, I asked how you're meant to find a partner without dating, and your answer involves finding someone, and then dating them, so I think we might be talking totally cross-purposes somewhere.
You misunderstood me entirely.
I said that you don't go out LOOKING for a wife, you meet her in the natural course of your life. The secular idea of "dating" is to go out, find single strangers, and then ask them for a date and away you go on dating.
What I am saying to do, is to get to know several friends, and maybe one of those platonic friendships might blossom into something further. But yet when you formed the platonic friendship, dating was not the reason you did so. Dating happened when one of your platonic friendships blossomed into something further on its own without any pushing.
I guess what I'm trying to say here, is that you should meet your wife in the natural course of life, let God do it with His capable hands rather than trying to take matters into your own hands and going out for the purpose of finding a wife. He has someone in mind for everybody, but a lot of times, we think we know better than God, and we take matters into our own hands. That's how so many good Christians end up in terrible marriages, because we married people that God did not intend for us to marry.
Just go about your life naturally, don't worry about who or when you will find a wife and you might be surprised if you meet someone who is just perfect for you eventually. Or maybe you won't... there are blessings in being single, too.