But Jesus lay's down many rules, rules
His command was "love one another." His teaching was that the entire law is actually ecompassed by two commands . Love the Lord your God with everything you have and are (in principle), and Love your neighbour as yourself.
Which other "many rules" that he lay down are you thinking of? You do not have to work at bible study, go to church, pray, give tithes, etc. in order to win or keep your salvation. These will normally be natural outcomes of a life with Christ at the centre - but they are not laws that if ignored will jeopardise your salvation.
- the true church is not a building or a location that "you have to go to" - the church is the body of believers. Jesus said "where 2 or 3 are together in my name, I am there with them."
- there are many Christians who cannot read and do not have the bible in their own language. Reading the Bible is good, it helps you find out
about God, but knowing God himself is something quite different.
- praying is basically talking, communicating with God. You can't have much of a relationship with another person without communicating. So this is simply the mechanism. You don't think that communication with your parents, your spouse or your children is a matter of the law or regulation...do you?
- If you love someone and see they're in need, perhaps of companionship, help with car repair, or shopping, or support, encouragement, advice... would you refuse? That is also giving. In fact giving money is often a cop-out to avoid getting too committed and giving of yourself. The poor women who gave two pennies, gave more, said Jesus, than the Pharisees who gave hundreds of pounds. But generosity is a pretty natural outcome of friendship and love. And yes it can include money. Some churches teach that you "should" give a tithe, but this follows the Old Covenant, not the New. Paul did raise money among the Christians in Turkey and Greece for famine victims in Palestine, but he did not demand money, nor threaten believers with punishment if they didn't give.
- when you speak of freedom, you are probably missing the point of Christian freedom. Read Paul's letter to the Galatians about Christian freedom, and you will learn that freedom is
towards something, not only
from something
.
Freedom is impossible and meaningless if you are alone in the world. Freedom can only be experienced within a social context. And freedom can only be real if it includes the full respect of other people's freedom as much as your own. You must love your neighbour as yourself - not more and not less. If you love him/her more than yourself, you will find yourself open to his manipulation and your active submission to them; if you love them less than yourself, you are very likely to seek to demean them, exploit them, manipulate or control them - overtly or covertly - thus denying them their freedom. Freedom is
not power to control someone else, or impose demands on them, or even do things that negatively impact on others. Only love can make true freedom work. And that love is expressed in voluntary service, without any expectation of reciprical service.
I'm fully aware that church denominations tell their members to do the things you list - and many Christians behave as if they are indeed rules. But they are not laws placed by Jesus on his followers. If you find a local church that
demands that you do these things, then look somewhere else.
"If the Son makes you free you are free indeed!