And cardinal Muller, don't forget him. He had Fernandez' job a while back.
The matter of uncorrected abuse is significant. While an abuse doesn't invalidate something proper, the immediate significant 'abuse' of FS by James Martin, a close confidant of pope Francis, and without a word of correction so far, makes it a real question of whether James Martin et all might really understand FS far better than all of those people trying to say nothing at all has changed. James Martin has called them on that pretention, and until he is corrected by the Vatican the James Martin understanding is distinctly possible and maybe even probable. In FS cardinal Fernandez vociferously denies that anything has changed just like someone might vociferously deny that they moved the goalposts when in fact they did.
It is the time when the wheat and the tares aspect of the Church is getting rather obvious.
Schism is never the answer and, by God’s grace, I will never leave the Church.
Jesus said I know my sheep and my sheep know my voice and they will not listen to any other. The proper response is to follow our Lord’s commands, which are return not evil for evil. Bless and curse not. Love your enemies and do good to those who persecute you.
Homosexuality is a form of pleasure for some people. To try to convince them that heterosexuality is better is like arguing that vanilla is a better flavor than chocolate.
Satan is like the master of marketing that created false conflicts and gets his marks aka victims to choose sides in a non-existent unprofitable war. We see this in advertising all the time Coke vs Pepsi. In the sixties it was what brand of cigarettes do you smoke. What clothes do you wear. What shoes are cool? These are all distractions from what is really going on.
Do you think that the Son of Man who told us what does it profit a man should he gain the whole world and lose his own soul is going to care what brought you pleasure in this world?
Really?
We are called to deny ourselves, take our cross daily and follow Him. That means all of our appetites are to be denied and brought under the control of reason and truth, not for the indulgence of pleasure only.
Sex, which I will refer to as the marital act, is meant for the procreation of children as its primary end. It has a unitive aspect, in the absence of children, only when properly performed by husband and wife in their right disposition.
That means no contraception and natural family planning only for grave reasons. In America, and I am guilty of this 100 fold and a worm most miserable, we Catholics have not been properly catechized on the sacrament of marriage.
I see many so called young traditional Catholics getting married and say, oh we don’t want kids right away, so we will use natural family planning for the first four years or so of our marriage. That is not a grave reason, but a selfish reason.
If you don’t want to have children, then why are you getting married? Because we want to have sex silly! That is so backwards I want to scream.
The marriage is formed by the marital act. The public sacrament announced in Church is only a public declaration. The sacrament is performed by the couple. The priest is only their witness before God.
If you are standing at that altar, and you don’t want children, you are lying to God by presenting yourself for marriage. You are just using a ceremony to try and justify sexual activity while holding part of yourself back, it’s not a complete marital union.
A sacrament enters into in that manner is considered valid but not consummated and therefore annulable, unless the couple repents and legitimately consummates the marriage.
Do you know that once the marriage vows are taken that it is forbidden for a woman to refuse a reasonable request for the marital act under pain of mortal sin? If the woman that you are marrying does not believe that then don’t marry her. If a man doesn’t want children don’t marry him .
Why is masculinity gone? Because men have refused to control their lust and look to women to be the grantees of pleasure rather then the wives they should be. Too many women marry these simps that can’t control themselves and wind up whining and begging for sex.
If my wife refused the marital act, I would leave the marital bed and tell her that we cannot be together until she repents and goes to confession for her mortal sin. A man is not a man and head of his household until he has his libido under control. Masturbation, inappropriate content and contraception are all mortal sins. Why is your house in turmoil or you are not properly respected as the head? Are you engaging in mortal sin? Repent, go to confession and see what happens. Do not validate your wife in her mortal sin for the sake of your own pleasure either. Deny yourself and take up your cross.
Why are we seeing so much problems with homosexuality? It is because we have looked upon sex as for pleasure only and not the proper marital act that it is. The battle is not between gay and straight. It is between chaste and unchaste. God told is through Paul’s letter to the Roman’s what happens when you behave unchaste. Leaving the natural use of the woman, God gave them over to their lusts. The natural use of the woman is children. Leaving that, we see a culture that is abandoned by God to all of its own lusts. A man that follow his lusts and looks at them as good is an idolater. He has made himself his own God. The Bible says his god is his belly and he has become as a brute beast good for nothing.
Are we to be surprised at homosexuals? What do we expect when we treat the marital act in the same way that they do? Homosexuals are not to be hated, but rather pitied as we would a child that was an alcoholic or addict. We don’t tell an alcoholic Jim Beam is no good, Jack Daniel’s is better, or an addict cocaine is junk methamphetamine is the way.
We repent, ask God to forgive, mortify our bodies and come back to the obedience of faith.
What is the hymn we sing? Let there be peace on earth and let it begin with me. Is my libido under control and under submission to God and His Church? Am I chaste?
I know for most of my life I was not, but by the grace and mercy of God, I can say today
I am a Catholic man. The woman with whom I will have intercourse with either is or is to be the mother of my children. I will never use contraception, not have intercourse with a woman who does. I will not attempt union with my wife whole she is in a state of mortal sin, as what fellowship has light with darkness? I follow God’s command to flee fornication and turn my body over to the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ, whose name is forever blessed.
For a fresh perspective on homosexuality, I highly recommend the book Homosexuality and the Politics of Truth by Jeffrey Satinover MD
It is an extremely well written report about homosexuality and its religious and medical implications