Right Thing To Do? (Married Couple Issue)

[FireDragon76]

I would say we are a loving couple before my medical issue. We served as "Christian Marriage Encouragers" for 10 years and ministered to over 500 couples over that time. When I woke up from coma .... I met a new person (wife) who's secretive and likes going out on her own (worst does not want me to know where and who she is with).

What you've both gone through is extraordinary, and the usual rules and expectations just don't apply very well.

At the very least, you need to get counseling for yourself, even if your wife is not really interested.

 

[adriw7878]

Just signed up for counseling this Wednesday .... alone. I am not feeling sad just planning new life for myself.