- Dec 3, 2017
- 25
- 30
- Country
- United States
- Faith
- Christian
- Marital Status
- Single
- Politics
- US-Republican
Little note about him and I, were both 17, neither of us have ever been in a relationship, never kissed anyone, living a Christian lifestyle. I've known this guy since the summer, and from day one we just really hit it off. We had a great time talking and laughing. Shortly after meeting and literally spending every day together, his family moved to a state that's 10 hours away. Well, we talk on the phone basically every day. Talking about serious stuff, or just joking around. We've never argued or disagreed on anything. Recently it's to the point where he frequently states his affections for me in subtle ways, telling me I'm a beautiful, virtuous woman of God, and even refers to me with openly on social media. I respond the same way to him.
So we both really want to see each other again, but it's long distance at the moment till he can afford his car. We decided that since my brother lives in his state, I'll fly down to my brothers for the holidays and then my brother will drop me off at his place for a about 4 days. I know what your thinking but let me reassure you. I will be in his room, and he will be sleeping in his parents room with them. He had it all planned out; he wanted to take me to the beach and we could waltz on the beach together (we're both ballroom dancers), kayaking, a walk through the city lights lit up for Christmas, and a bonfire with jazz music and star gazing. His plans- he came up with all of it.
Well, just like 3 weeks away from the trip, and he didn't call me yesterday which is weird and this morning out of nowhere he texts me and was like "So about you coming to my place, I don't think it'll work out." And I responded asking what's wrong and he never responded. I'm absolutely shocked. I already bought plane tickets and he knows it. I really care about him idk why he would just bail on me... Like I've never felt this way about someone before...
The rest of the day I've been quite confused and down in the dumps. I'm also having thoughts of just rebelling and dressing provocativly and just getting a man for the sake of it. It's horrible but my mind is spinning and I don't know what to do... I just don't feel good enough anymore
So we both really want to see each other again, but it's long distance at the moment till he can afford his car. We decided that since my brother lives in his state, I'll fly down to my brothers for the holidays and then my brother will drop me off at his place for a about 4 days. I know what your thinking but let me reassure you. I will be in his room, and he will be sleeping in his parents room with them. He had it all planned out; he wanted to take me to the beach and we could waltz on the beach together (we're both ballroom dancers), kayaking, a walk through the city lights lit up for Christmas, and a bonfire with jazz music and star gazing. His plans- he came up with all of it.
Well, just like 3 weeks away from the trip, and he didn't call me yesterday which is weird and this morning out of nowhere he texts me and was like "So about you coming to my place, I don't think it'll work out." And I responded asking what's wrong and he never responded. I'm absolutely shocked. I already bought plane tickets and he knows it. I really care about him idk why he would just bail on me... Like I've never felt this way about someone before...
The rest of the day I've been quite confused and down in the dumps. I'm also having thoughts of just rebelling and dressing provocativly and just getting a man for the sake of it. It's horrible but my mind is spinning and I don't know what to do... I just don't feel good enough anymore